I want to throw it.. but at the same time, i don't..cause i know i always feel sexual and want to see something for release, and pictures are not the same. I also don't because i wasted about 2000 for buying dvd's, and it would be a waste of money to just throw them all. But, i'm the loner type and i never had a girlfriend, and i probably won't, i've been accepting this fact, so i just want to forget about girls.. so that's why i want to throw everything away.
It's hard, i want to give it all up.. but i know, then if i do.. i will feel like i shouldn't have done it. should i just throw it all? By the way, it's not like it's all in the open.. i threw all the cases long time ago. and i live with myfamily but since they are not visible it's not like they will see it. so, the whole idea i have is based on me, not on fear of my family catching me. I'm 26 years old male. any help?
2006-11-16 06:10:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Throwing it away would be a really wasteful act - throwing anything away that could be resold and enjoyed by someone else is needlessly crowding up a landfill.
And if you're just getting rid of them because you feel you "should", not because you actually have no use for them anymore - what's to stop you from going on a shopping spree next time you look for the DVDs and they are all gone?
2006-11-16 09:58:05 · answer #1 · answered by mizerock 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to buy them and if I didn't like them I'd usually throw it away. Some might have some good or favorite scenes. See if you can save or copy only the scenes what you want from the best of them and reduce them that way. Sell or store the rest. Most adult stores are a rip-off so two grand would go pretty fast that way. Movies are one thing watching them on line I think is way over the edge like on line gambling and a great way to get viruses.
2006-11-16 14:37:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh my gosh! Whats the big deal? Everyone collects something, and you just happen to collect Porn-BIG DEAL! Why get rid of it? You spent good money to get it. When you get over your shyness, and decide to go out there and meet someone, you both can watch it together! You can't "forget" about girls, your a dude! Join some kind of dating site to start getting used to talking with girls, slowly get yourself into girls. A free site is "Plenty of Fish". Get fishin, lots of females out there just waitin for ya!!
2006-11-16 16:22:22 · answer #3 · answered by sue d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know in your heart that it is wrong to have and to look at that stuff. You should want to make yourself a better person by not promoting within yourself these delusions of what sex is. By watching porn, you are damaging your potential future relationships. Throw it out and get a new hobby or learn a new skill to occupy your mind and time. Learn to do something that you've always wanted to do. Make yourself a better person for your future mate. Watching porn will only make you less of a good person.
2006-11-16 14:27:26 · answer #4 · answered by HazelEyes 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Why would you want to throw it away it's a collection!
no matter what it is you like it! right.. but if you feel there is a neeed then go threw them out, then select your top few dvd that you don't want to part with or grade them all 1-5 or a-e and only keep the 1's or A's...
Good luck!
2006-11-16 14:30:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Show it to your mom
Sorry, but I tend to still toss out such stuff in my sons home.
The way I see it, it is more enjoyable actually doing it, rather than watching others get it on on some DVD. But hey, you prefer watching...
Maybe grandma should get wind of it.
2006-11-16 14:29:56 · answer #6 · answered by sassy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you want to get rid of it, and feel that its interfering with your real life, do it. Porn is fine as a 'spice' to real life, its not good as a replacement.
Sell them, don't throw them out :p.
And don't forget about girls. Your porn is allowing you to escape reality into fantasy, then come back feeling even worse. Throw it out, start interacting with real girls. You can do it.
2006-11-16 14:13:46 · answer #7 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Don't throw it out, just stop watching it and focus your attention on finding a girl. They can be pretty good to spice up a relationship and most girls love watching them with their boyfriends. Although, don't bring them out right away. Wait until you have a solid and comfortable relationship. If you do it too soon, she'll freak out.
2006-11-16 14:20:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Sell it on ebay. They have a "mature audiences" section. You may as well make some money if you are considering getting rid of your collection.
2006-11-16 14:22:14 · answer #9 · answered by badkitty1969 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you want to get rid of them, or any of them, do it. But, don't throw them out, give them to me!! I'd be more than happy to get them off your hand!! Might even pay for some!
2006-11-16 14:41:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋