Am not a bad person, but am really begining to feel things for this guy we've been friends for 2 years now since i started seeing my bf. Am really trying to ignore it, but is that right though, am real confused, i need advice.
2006-11-16 06:08:02 · 11 answers · asked by tuebi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This happens sometimes. It may not be right, but sometimes it is what just happens. I would say leave him alone if you wish to keep your friend. Maybe they will break up, and things will work out, but don't make it happen, or you will loose your friend. You must ask yourself, is it worth loosing my friend over? If not, then back off... Way off. Hope this helps. Good Luck!!!
2006-11-16 06:11:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of relationship are you having with your boyfriend? Are you happy with him? Is he happy with you? These are the questions you must ask yourself. Then compare your boyfriend to the other guy. Would you be as happy with him? Has he shown any interest in you? And finally, there's this thing about loyalty. How would you feel if your boyfriend suddenly decided he liked one of your girlfriends better than you? Turn about is fair play, you know. So think about the situation seriously, and if everything stacks up more favorably with the other guy, then you owe your boyfriend the courtesy of explaining to him the reasons why you feel you should break up with him. But if you come to the realization that your boyfriend is the one you should stick with, then forget about the other guy, because it may just be an infatuation on your part, and you could end up without either one of them. So look carefully before you leap into the arms of another.
2006-11-16 06:17:58 · answer #2 · answered by gldjns 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask your self no rely if that's a possibility he's mendacity? Has there been oppurtunity for a romance to bloom? tell him and your perfect chum which you would be away for the day/nighttime for in spite of 'stable reason' and you heavily isn't back till in a protracted time day after today or so. shop a camcorder/digital camera loaded with new batteries and shoot the pictures of lyes,on your info if certainly a romance has began. If it has,decrease all ties inclusive of your BF and your chum. because of the fact cheating isn't love and you will desire to validate your self-well worth.
2016-10-15 15:29:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to be with your boyfriend then dump him. If his bestfriend is any kind of real friend he won't date you whether you break up with him or not. So your kind of screwed either way. If you want to stay with your boyfriend then stay, but if you dump him for his bestfriend then you will be out a boyfriend and the guy you like because chances are he won't date you because your his bestfriends ex.
2006-11-16 06:13:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Break up with your boyfriend now. Even if nothing comes of you and his friend you have no right to lead your boyfriend on when you clearly don't love him and your eyes & heart are straying.
If you end up going out with his friend you will most likely ruin their friendship. I hope it's all worth it to you.
2006-11-16 06:11:03 · answer #5 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Break up with your bf, then wait a while before you will even consider going out with his friend.
2006-11-16 06:11:11 · answer #6 · answered by saraikyon 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well just go with whoever you really like a lot and feel like things are good between you guys
2006-11-16 07:05:09 · answer #7 · answered by SexyAmby 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
leave it alone now its only going to come back to you believe in karma im telling you get over the lust you feel its trouble
2006-11-16 06:09:58 · answer #8 · answered by diamond 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nothing.
2006-11-16 06:10:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should break it off with your boy or tell him how you feel.
2006-11-16 06:09:54 · answer #10 · answered by Your_Star 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋