her in 7 months, today. 7 months ago, I talked to her on the phone about my surgery, I would be having in 4 days. Well, I had the surgery, 4 days later. She didnt call to see how I was or how surgery went. So, I was mad and decided, I wasnt going to call her. I was going to wait until she called me. Well, she never called. It has been 7 months and nothing. Now, I hear she is almost 3 months pregnant. This was my childhood best friend and we have been through every up and down of our life, together. It is not like us, to not talk. I have even tried 3 times to call her, and still nothing. I dont want to call her, but maybe write her a letter. I almost dont even want to be friends ever agian. But, I do want to know whats going on. Should I write her a letter, and if so, what should I say??
2006-11-16 05:22:53 · 6 answers · asked by Krissy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Write her a letter and pour your heart out. You don't want to waste 15 years of friendship, but you don't understand why all of a sudden you two are not speaking and for no reason. Then the ball's in her court, it's up to her to call you, write to you, etc. Be prepared for her not to, she may have some reason that she doesn't want to say, etc. Who knows.
2006-11-16 05:36:07 · answer #1 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm in a similar situation with the person who was my best friend for 25 years! I'm so stubborn, but my case is much different. Our friction came during my mother's funeral!!! It's now been almost 1 1/2 years and we still haven't spoken. I'm heartbroken, and I did try to contact her, as well, but she has chosen to end the friendship. I've made new friends, and I have a couple of other 'best friends', but none that stood the test of time like she did. I gave up, and I still miss her and think of her every single day, but until she chooses to bury the hatchet, so to speak, I've decided to just go on. People change, so my advice to you would be to just pray about it and for her, perhaps, in time, you will reunite. Good luck!!
2006-11-16 05:28:30 · answer #2 · answered by ladyw900ldriver 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she's speaking to him on-line No!!! For all you understand he is also a few loopy killer or some thing...You by no means recognise! If she was once my 15 yr historic pal i could have a major speak....Oh and what kinda of 21 yr historic even consider approximately assembly a fifteen yr historic lady...Dont he recognise thats RAPE in such a lot states!!!
2016-09-01 13:32:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think you should write her and tell her how you feel. There's got to be a reason why she has shut you out of her life. If you get no response from her, then let it go, and try and remember the good times you had. Bad feelings will only consume you and make you a bitter person...... Good Luck....
2006-11-16 06:07:38 · answer #4 · answered by P-Nut 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ahh well critical situation!!!!.. i`ll say jst go ahead write a letter she`s ur childhood frn u shud do it... she replies or nt is her choice atleast u would`ve done ur bit.... well ask abt health n stuff n may talk abt the old times u had together God knows the memories may bring u two back together....!!! All the best...
2006-11-16 05:36:15 · answer #5 · answered by gaurav2985 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Something is going on---leave the sleeping dog lie.....
2006-11-16 05:52:10 · answer #6 · answered by Maw-Maw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋