The one thing I hate the most is hypocracy. Most people I know in most aspects of their life will judge people and give advice to someone when they don't even take their own. My wife/boss and family is so much like this. Do as I say, not as I do. They want to point out your faults even though they have like faults! Wish they would clean out there closets first!
2006-11-16 05:21:35 · 15 answers · asked by john j 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Can't stand liars myself. I think it's a big waste of everybody's time to tell a lie, even a little white one. Though people say they are sometimes necessary.For instance, I don't see why a person would lie and tell somebody they look nice in something, if they look absolutely ridiculous. Why would you not want to tell them the truth and let them hear it from a loved one, instead of letting them make a complete fool out of themselves and suffer embarrassment and humiliation from a total stranger. I thinking lying, though it may seem to help at the time, only makes situation that much worse and harder to deal with. Also it gives people a false sense of belief and hope to hang onto instead of a dose of reality. I know the "truth hurts" sometimes, but I'd take truth anyday over a lie. Also you have to do too much to keep a lie going once it's started, whereas if you are just str8 up and honest with people it would save you alot of hassle. You don't have to be nasty to people to be honest, and even if the "truth hurts", you can say it pleasant enough and still get your point across, without smiling in someone face while telling them a lie. All the best.
2006-11-16 05:57:25 · answer #1 · answered by TRUTH HURTZ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, understand what you mean. Most parents do say that. "Do what I tell you." Then we don't show them very good role models. I always am reminded that parenthood is hard anyway and we are learning just like the children are. When you get very mature ( like a whole lot older) and have your own children, you will understand. We all are hypocrites in our own way. Bad, bad.
I have been reminded of this by my own daughter and I do thank her for pointing out my faults to me, ( I just can't tell her about her faults).
Liked your question. Food for thought. Good for you.
2006-11-16 05:27:50 · answer #2 · answered by makeitright 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your moms and dads only love you and want what's ideal, as corny because it sounds. i understand you're the very oldest you have ever been on your entire life in the present day, in an attempt to your self, 20 looks fantastically previous, proper? even though it is fairly not, contained in the grand scheme of issues. Your moms and dads comprehend this, and they are only irritating you'll head down a problematic course. They keep in mind that 20 is fantastically youthful to get married, in spite of in case you and your BF were at the same time for 2 a million/2 years. As for shifting in inclusive of your BF< in the journey that your household's religious beliefs dictate that you do not bypass in till you're married, then do not. yet that shouldn't stop you from shifting out and living through your self, or with a lady roommate. i don't think of they might merchandise to that, and then you will be able to have a touch extra privateness to provide adulthood a attempt. Do you imagine possibly you may take only one or twocollege training, only to ascertain if it is for you? that would make your moms and dads chuffed, and also it would provide you with a probability to ascertain if there is a few thing in college that would pastime you. that would make your moms and dads see you as a mature youthful lady who a minimum of weighed her ideas and gave college a attempt. As for "wanting" college, I gained't misinform you- it is not for absolutely everyone. i understand a pair those who did not graduate from college, and they are making extra money than i'm, while I take a seat right here with my Bachelor's degree in Communications, answering phones for a whopping 13 funds an hour. although, i'm very proud that i'm a school graduate- i imagine it shows a particular power of personality even as someone has a school degree. It would not make me any better or worse than someone who did not bypass to school, in spite of the actuality that. i imagine what's major is to commence wondering about what you would want to do as an adult. in the journey that your pastime lies someplace that school gained't fairly help, then bypass for it, yet I do want you'll a minimum of bypass to school for a semester earlier you're making up your concepts. And in case you and your BF extremely love one yet another, marriage can wait. possibly your moms and dads does not merchandise to a lengthy engagement...? reliable good fortune, and that i wish you discover your bliss!
2016-11-24 22:44:17 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hypocracy also- People need to clean off their own door steps before they throw a flaming bag of crap on mine!!
Grrr..
2006-11-16 05:30:27 · answer #4 · answered by hopeilicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's easier 2 criticize some1 else's mistakes than Ur own. The worst thing that people do is LIE, it comes naturally for most.
2006-11-16 05:27:28 · answer #5 · answered by ♥less 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People judging me without knowing me first, preaching to me, when they have skeleton's in their closets and people that think they are better than other people.
2006-11-16 05:24:57 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Rudeness. Not following the golden rule: treating others as you would have yourself be treated.
2006-11-16 05:28:14 · answer #7 · answered by jare bare 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It bugs me, too. It seems that those who know themselves best are most reluctant to criticize others.
2006-11-16 05:25:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate it when people start a story.... get you all interested.... and then they go, "Nevermind" or "just forget it". OMG thats annoying
2006-11-16 05:25:11 · answer #9 · answered by Kristin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lmao basically their telling you dont be like me. hey sometimes you gotta flip da script.
2006-11-16 05:27:47 · answer #10 · answered by Young Dumb -N- Full of Myself 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋