well, i'm a guy, but very feminine. my 4 best friends are all girls and we always hang out together, shopping and stuff. i finally decided to tell them that i've always wanted to be a girl. i was like so surprised when they laughed and said they kinda already knew that. they just been waiting for me to tell them. anyways they were really cool about it and said they'd luv to help. oh my gosh, they just invited me to a make-up party and they invited me to come. well, they said if i came i had to come as a girl! please help me out. should i go, yea i'd luv to. but do you think i should. and if you say yes, what should i wear. please, only girls answer. guys are always so mean. thanks so much :)
2006-11-16 04:45:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
Hi sweetie!
Of course you should go. If you'd love to go, then why shouldn't you? There is no good reason to stay home because somewhere deep inside you, you still feel a bit insecure. They accept you for who you are, and want you to be yourself around them. There is no reason to stress over this.
Well, it's a makeup party. Wear something cute, but also washable :-) If it's dry clean only, it could get ruined if something harsh gets spilled. Going as a girl doesn't mean you have to wear a skirt or dress; so if you would rather go in jeans or pants that's OK. Their point is that they want to see you as you'd like to be, so maybe put on your favorite skirt and top to go over in, and have an old tee to change into for the actual makeup part of the evening.
Have fun!
2006-11-16 05:01:52 · answer #1 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that you should go....you're in a safe environment because you're with your best friends and they wouldn't put you in a bad situation intentionally at all. In terms of dressing up or not....that's really up to you and you have to figure out if you're ready to do something like that. (go out in public dressed as a girl). I don't know if there are going to be other people there outside of your group of friends or if this is just your cirlce of friends going....if it's an open party where there may be other individuals there, is that something you're mentally ready for. Best of luck and I hope all goes over well.
2006-11-16 05:00:23 · answer #2 · answered by kristina807 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would not go for the simple fact that they are telling you how you have to come to their party. It kinda sounds like they are setting you up to be the laughing stock of the party. Just be VERY careful because people who say they are your friends can be just as mean if not worse then your enemies.
2006-11-16 04:49:27 · answer #3 · answered by cmsmith114 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm a girl and i personally think that u shouldn't go, even if u like this kind of things. it's too feminine... i believe it's not wrong to be like this but it's too weird.. but, if u really want to go and dressed as a girl u should go. it's up to u. u must decide what you'd like to do
2006-11-16 04:56:17 · answer #4 · answered by alexandra s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if your friends are supporrive good for you . Wear some colorful undewear some blue jeans and a cute tee that you can probaly get a Charolette Russ. Wear a thong then you'll fit in.
2006-11-16 04:54:55 · answer #5 · answered by ReyMysterio'swife 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do no longer pay attention to those who insult you, it is so immature. i think of you're able to communicate on your boyfriend approximately it. If being a woman might make you happy, then it would be something which you're able to evaluate. i do no longer understand what he's like, yet he can respond certainly or detrimental, and that's conceivable which you're able to take. consult with him flippantly for the duration of dinner or something and enable him understand which you're extreme and which you like him and prefer to spend your existence with him. If he loves you, he could comprehend. good success!
2016-10-22 04:59:56 · answer #6 · answered by connely 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have some awesome friends. Ask them to help you get ready, make a day of shopping before the party. Wear whatever you feel good about yourself in. Have fun!
2006-11-16 04:48:20 · answer #7 · answered by Carrie H 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
dont let anybody influence you. my cousin came out to me. he is feminine as well. he wore female clothes a few times but he doesnt like it to much. he still dresses real nice. he gets his eyebrows arched and he wears eyeliner. if you over do it then you are going to look crazy. if they over do it and tell you that you look good then they are not really friends. but about what you would wear. a nice pair of capris or bremuda shortstry to make sure your belt matches your shoes. you dont have to wear a purse but a little black clutch would be nice. dont over do it if yu havent done it before
2006-11-16 04:51:17 · answer #8 · answered by solidergurl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This could be one big MiSTAKE!
They could totally humiliate you.
Dress as yourself when you go there. In male clothing.
& i find it odd as soon as you tell them they want to put make-up on you ? If i were you i wouldn't be so trusting....
Oh by the way, if they were so supportive they wouldn't have laughed in your face and then acted like they already knew...
2006-11-16 04:49:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
if your friends are supportive (which it sounds like they are) then go for it. A friend will me still love you if tell them you have always wanted to be a purple hippo. Go to the party and enjoy finally being yourself
2006-11-16 04:48:01 · answer #10 · answered by beddybeddy83 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋