Why don't I like women?

Question

I know I'm going to get an awful lot of abuse and flak for this question, but on the whole, I don't really like women. Understand that this is not a hidden 'am I gay' question, and I think it's relevent to explain that I'm not, but most women seem to have an underlying cruel and sadistic streak. They're constantly proclaiming to be the better sex, and yet are blind to their own faults. Of course men are cruel too, but when women want to be cruel, there's no one better!

Answer 1

LOL, Man You are making a huge mistake in generalizing the Girls! I would suggest that You consider how many Women You've known compared to how many there are in the world then rethink Your whole thing. Even the ones that have a predisposition towards cruelty are not without some redeeming virtues if You get the drift of what I'm saying. It's really up to You how You interact with them and if You don't like the way they present then surely You must like the way they look, and smell; and feel!! Come on Guy! They're Women!!!! I haven't meet one yet I didn't like for some reason or another, even the meanies have their good points; LOL; and I mean two good points too!! Cheer up Buttercup, there's a Girl for every Guy if You want a Girl; and She doesn't have to be cruel or sadistic either. There are an awful lot of real sweet little things just a praying that someone comes along for them to fuss over and Love. I've not had any problems and I'm as ugly as a toad, half the time I don't even pay attention to them so there is hope for anyone as far as I'm concerned. Be confident and believe in Yourself Billy Lad, You'll be okay; and when You do hook up with the right Girl be grateful and treat Her right; that's all they generally want if You must generalize. All the best and good luck Dude!

Answer 2

You need to change the company you keep. I am not a holier then thou type at all. I am not cruel and vicious. And I've known quite a few men who have been just as vindictive then any woman I have known.

It may be that you are just attracted to and attracting this type of woman. There are MANY MANY kind women out there, you just need to find them.

Another reason is that you are only looking for a woman faults, and we are just human, we will have them. Try looking at a person's positive traits and focus on that, rather then looking for the flaws.

I was having a hard time finding a good man, they seemed all to be spoiled brat alcoholics who lived at home with mommy and daddy and didn't have a car because they were too busy getting DWI's to keep their license. I realized that not only was I looking in the wrong places but I was attracted to and attracting the wrong type of guy. I made rules and I stuck by them (and these rules didn't include ANY physical traits whatsoever) and I eventually found a man that fit all those rules. We were just married a month ago, a feat that I never thought I would ever go through. It just goes to show you that the right person can change your mind about things. You just need to change your outlook first.

Answer 3

Maybe your past experiences with certain women have caused underlying problems with appreciating the rest of the sex. Yes women can be cruel, but men are equals on that matter in my experience and whats worse some of them don't even realise they're being cruel!
Remember the saying, Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned, its true, if you make a woman upset she'll usually try to make you upset too, i don't think we do it because we're evil, I think we do it to prove a point. Its sort of like saying you've made me feel this way, now you see how it feels and don't do it again.
I do also agree most women are completely blind to their faults whilst some men quite freely admit theirs. Its just the way we are unfortunatly.

There are some really truly beautiful women out there though who are not like this and would never dream of being cruel or vindictive. You just have to look for them.

Answer 4

You sound like you've been badly hurt and let down by women Billy, but honestly not all women are cruel and sadistic just like not all men are cruel and sadistic either, whoever she was must have hurt you so bad for you to feel this way and to give up on love, but one day you will love again and she will be a sweetheart, just have faith as shes out there somewhere waiting to love you.

Answer 5

Billy, my boy, masochism is a long recognized affliction among men. Very often men who are very successful in seduction and are surrounded by females, are masochists who abuse women in subtle but cruel ways. The very power that women can have over men infuriates them, they seethe that they cannot escape their need for female society.

Now there is another kind of gender animosity, and its called "the angry dumpee syndrome" Either sex, when deeply wounded by a failed romance will extend their hurt to the whole other gender.

Am I right, that there has been a dumping here, and you are the dumpee. Don't worry, you'll find another, and the anger will pass off. There's someone for everyone, Billy. Get out there and kick the bushes till you flush her out.

Answer 6

You're overgeneralizing. There's no way that you have the capacity to gather a sample of enough women in which to base such an assumption. So, you seem to be attracting the wrong types of women. That may say something about your own character, or lack thereof.

Just an opinion.

Answer 7

welcome to the club, I don't like women either, but I'm not gay, too much trouble, too much heart ache, too much abuse, too much expectation, too much teasing, too many threats
and I wasn't even married, I don't understand cause my friends say I'm a good person

28 But and if thou marry, thou hast not sinned; and if a virgin marry, she hath not sinned. Nevertheless such shall have trouble in the flesh: but I spare you
1 Corinthians 7:28

Answer 8

Honestly, I think you are right BUT there are some good ones out there if you can find her. Keep looking, it will give you something to do. :) Also, you will need to meet her 50-50. Try friendship first. Sometimes, the most unlikely, with no expections, just relax and have a one on one--not even male and female--just a person to person. I wish you luck.

Answer 9

First of all...why r girls cruel?, and why r guys cruel?...if u start pointing and saying that we're then..sorry...but ur just generalizating... girls act with their feelings most of the times, and if they are cruel, maybe ur the one w the problem...u know.. maybe its not the rest of the world ^^'

Answer 10

That sucks. Try hanging out somewhere you've never been maybe then you'd find a nice woman. There are nice woman in the world. I'm one. Don't give up hope just yet.