Has anyone ever been involved? We may try....looking foradvise...not trying to be perverted.
2006-11-16 03:59:30 · 4 answers · asked by jimmyslippyshoes 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Advice - Do a search for swingers places in your town, call them up and interview them briefly - mostly what you want to know is if they have an initiation fee and an orientation session. Those tend to weed out the perverts and cheap dates. Go to the orientation session, ask any question you want - they have heard them all -and try out one party. One absolute for swingers is yes means yes and no means no. You will be removed and possibly not allowed back if you violate that rule.
2006-11-16 04:09:41 · answer #1 · answered by bocasbeachbum 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Looks like a kiddie pool, but be careful! It gets deep in a big hurry. My husband and I have "swung" before and loved it. Contrary to common misconception, it is not the hallmark of a shoddy relationship; it absolutely DEMANDS a solidly functional relationship, as it amplifies whatever is put into it. Ever been to boot camp? The strong get stronger, and the rest "take their ball and go home". Sort of like taking your relationship to the gym to work it out. If you practice sloppy form and try bench pressing 250 lbs right off the bat without a spotter, trying to show off, the only thing you're going to impress upon anyone is that you're an idiot...an idiot who needs someone else to lift the bar off his throat. :) It isn't a race. There is no hurry. The lifestyle isn't going anywhere! No harm was ever done by taking your time, and building up experience slowly; PLENTY of harm, however, has been done by trying too much too fast. Some people can jump right in without a problem, but I wouldn't recommend it. And also remember that this is a team sport. One spouse should not be dragging the other behind him or her. No pushing, no pulling, no pressure.
Do LOTS of reading up on the subject. Swingersboard.com is THE best place for information and advice. After you've talked each others' ears off, and read enough threads on swingersboard that your eyes are bloodshot, use their club listings page to find a reputable club near you. Go for the evening, promising one another that for this one evening, playing with others is off limits. You're going there to simply absorb the atmosphere and see just who these "swingers" are. Talk to the club hosts beforehand to get an orientation (usually a requirement for new members anyway). Even if you decide swinging is not your bag, baby, I'm sure you'll still have had a great evening out together. Club atmosphere is very flirty, playful and erotic. Tons of fun.
Best of luck to you both!
2006-11-17 01:10:02 · answer #2 · answered by intuition897 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've tried swinging from a tree branch, from the monkey bars, from ropes....but i think my personal favortie is the good ole fashion tire swing! :-)
***Just be safe in all that u do***
2006-11-16 12:33:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tried it once, but the rope broke and both the tire and I ended up in the river.
2006-11-16 12:09:53 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Quest 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋