My neighbor “Jenni”, who is married to a buddy of mine, has a secret crush on one of her girlfriends. They got drunk last night and I noticed that they were being very flirtatious towards one another. Should I tell her husband, or should I let him find out by himself?
2006-11-16 03:57:19 · 12 answers · asked by wolfball 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I can understand you feeling protective of your buddy....that's what makes a good friend, a good friend. It's a tricky situation and it could backfire on you so, the best thing I would suggest is to talk to "Jenni." If I were in this situation, I'd be letting her know how I feel about this deception and if it continues, I would tell her husband.....that's just how I would deal with it.
Marriage is sacred....it's unforgivable in my book to mess around. Either you're in the relationship 100% or you're not....if it's the latter, do the right thing and let the other person go.
2006-11-16 04:16:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to University studies many women are attracted to other women. Whether they act on it or not is another story...
Sounds like your friends wife is doing what a lot of women are doing today: Being themselves! which is fantastic.
You may want to allow your friend to find out for himself. She was just having some fun don't spoil it by taking it too seriously.
2006-11-16 04:07:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should ask him in a round-about-way, like "hey what would you do if so-n-so was getting it on"? See what he says and how he might react. For the most part I believe that men like that stuff,but then again this will be a personal thing. I asked my husband and he thinks it would like cheating(if he wasn't invited to participate).
2006-11-16 04:50:14 · answer #3 · answered by Melissa H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Information is power, rent a camera and set the right atmosphere,you may get extremely lucky!
2006-11-16 04:01:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldn't get into it, but I would make sure that I let homegirl know that your aware and she cant hang out in your area or else you will tell.
2006-11-16 04:01:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay out of it, dont staet trouble. often times women act that way naturally and it may appear to be something it's not. trust me! Maybe they were just messing with you trying to get you to notice them. Us women love to mess with men that way.
2006-11-16 04:00:17 · answer #6 · answered by I know, I know!!!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the husband. if hes a buddy you should
2006-11-16 03:59:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should be respectful of both of your friends, and say nothing.
2006-11-16 03:59:55 · answer #8 · answered by Clarkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More pleasure for him, let him find out.()
2006-11-16 03:59:20 · answer #9 · answered by Saint 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he like that kind of stuff? he might be into it and they both might might be happy. it might even help them
2006-11-16 04:07:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋