well im 15 and still a virgen. more often than not i find ma self thinkin about duin it (loosing ma virgenity, if u kno wot i mean) , ma question is shud i? am i really ready at this age?. i need ur help
2006-11-16 03:30:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Nope, you shouldn't. Once you lose it, its gone forever, and you'll never have a first time again. Some people would say, "Big deal". But, some day you're going to find that special someone, who you TRULY love, not just someone you got the hots for... and you will want to get married and plan to spend the rest of your lives together. What better gift than to have saved yourself, so that you first time is with the one that you love that much.
My wife and I were both virgins when we married. It's great to know that we have something between us that no one else has ever had. Neither one of us were used or damaged goods.
There is incredible pressure on teens to have sex. It's usually seen as just having fun (recreational sex). But people don't think much about the psychological aspects. Sex is the most personal thing you can give to someone else. It's like giving them a part of you, and you can't take it back.
Please, let your mind guide you on this one, not your feelings. I wish you the best.
2006-11-17 15:16:09 · answer #1 · answered by Jonas_J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im 16 and I am goin thru the same thing u r. The only thing that is keeping me is really my faith. I don't want to be like everyone else. I want to get married to someone I love and then worry about sex. Just don't do it. I kno itz difficult, but it will only get worse if u go and lose it now.Besides, then therez nuthn tp look 4ward 2.
Good luck and I am praying for u.
2006-11-18 00:48:43 · answer #2 · answered by Just Dance 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youre virginity is something special. You will never ever get it back once it's gone. You may lose it now but what if later on, you decide to get married and you're head over heels in love- youll regret that you gave it away. Also, if your not sure about it- your not ready yet
2006-11-18 23:42:56 · answer #3 · answered by Dore D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heres the deal. Im 18, and I'm a guy. Guys are scum bags. If you are going to lose your virginity, I suggest you wait for the right guy. You'll know who the right guy is. I listen nightly to my friends who are girls bitching about how they wish they could take back having sex. Its something you cant take back, so take it seriously.
And the other thing you have to ask is what happens if you get pregnant. You have to be prepared for the consequences. So whatever you choose to do, good luck.
Oh and stay safe
2006-11-17 23:40:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only lose it if you find someone you love.
P.S Virgin is spelled V I R G I N
2006-11-17 21:11:45 · answer #5 · answered by Dylan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess that would be up to you. I mean if you have a boyfriend who you know loves you, and is willing to wait, he's the one. You may not be ready, but you may be. And please don't do it because of peer pressure.
THAT IS JUST GAY
2006-11-17 20:04:11 · answer #6 · answered by Janessa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You need to sort yourself out. The first time should be special.
2006-11-17 12:16:23 · answer #7 · answered by honeb1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it little girl, your not ready.
2006-11-18 16:25:51 · answer #8 · answered by You Lames! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋