My boyfriend and I decided that we had mad a bad choice by getting that abortion. So we have been having unprotected sex for the last two weeks straight. My period is not due untill the 24th so what should I do?
2006-11-16 03:23:13 · 5 answers · asked by renee 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
It was a very bad choice, but having another baby is not going to solve anything. I really recommend signing up for the free online post-abortion study at http://www.healinghearts.org Just about all of the email counselors there have aborted babies themselves, and they can help you work through all the issues you're dealing with. If you've already conceived another child, the Healing Hearts study will help you get your life in order so that you can be a good mother to the baby.
You might also want to visit http://Abort73.com and confront what you did to your child. The truth hurts, but you need to see it.
2006-11-17 06:25:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not try to have a baby to help cover up for the one you just "destroyed". If you weren't adult enough to handle a pregnancy then how can you be ready to handle one now. The baby that you had taken care of with the abortion did NOT ask to be conceived yet you decided it was alright to terminate his life. You both need to sit down and think about what you are doing before you have any more sex. Babies are a wonderful gift and need to be treated that way. Yes well all make mistakes but you are talking about a human life. Give you body and mind time to heal from all of this and then decide if you are both ready to commit to a baby 24/7 before you have unprotected sex.
2006-11-16 11:29:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Are you saying that you are trying to get pregnant again? I'm not sure what your question is here.... If you are trying to get pregnant again, you won't know if you are until after your period is late. When that happens, get a test and see. If you have been having unprotected sex that often there is a good chance you ARE pregnant! So congrats to you guys!
2006-11-16 12:14:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you will just have to wait and find out..ovulation happens on day 14 after the first day of your period. there is short period of time you can get pregnant each month, however sperm will live up to 72 hors inside the female body. you need to get some books or read online on best ways to concieve. and i hope next time you find out your pregnant you make the right choice.
2006-11-16 11:36:02 · answer #4 · answered by iwearpink4life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should get married before trying to have a child. Then determine your financial status and make sure you are properly established to raise a child. Then consider attending parenting classes to learn how to be a good parents.
2006-11-16 11:27:21 · answer #5 · answered by S H 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋