I have three young children and I am a full time employee. My boyfriend of two years is in love with me and has told me that he is very attracted to me. It is frustrating for him that I am just too tired to be in the mood. I have had this problem for about a year now. Has anyone else experienced this? What did you do?
2006-11-16 03:13:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
when you're tired and busy it's pretty normal to have a low libido. and after being with someone for 2 years, the "newness" might have kind of worn off as well. the truth is that it takes work to maintain the romance and passion after a certain point--if he's still got it, then that's 1/2 of the work done--try to make time for each other, private time, for doing romantic things to get you in the mood, etc. just hang in there!
2006-11-16 03:23:05 · answer #1 · answered by KJC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just too tired and bored with everyday routine life. Also, I don't know if your boyfriend satisfies you sexually. Try to get away in a romantiv week end, or if you can't do that, leave the kids at your mum for the weekend, relax, fill the bath tub for both of you, have a romantic dinner, with candles, champagne and all, dress nicely, and enjoy. Make it special, take your time in foreplay, I think it will work!
2006-11-16 11:20:02 · answer #2 · answered by cpinatsi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is because you are so busy. You have a right to be tired. Can you guys take some time off and go away for a while? I think you need a vacation.
2006-11-16 11:17:06 · answer #3 · answered by Jabberwock 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for some women, this is the norm that they go through. if you feel comfortable this way, it shouldn't be an issue at all. maybe it's time to find a new b-f who considers you feeling and mood over his....
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2006-11-16 11:45:19 · answer #4 · answered by no_yesses 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
buy yourself a toy and wake up your libido....you may want it a bit more....
2006-11-16 11:20:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SERIOUSLY, A INJECTION OF TESTOSTERONE WILL BOOST IT UP FOR YOU!
2006-11-16 11:17:14 · answer #6 · answered by SWM 38 _4_ YOUNG GF 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋