This is just something I have often wondered about.
We know mens first is sexual. Is the same true for ladies.
Some might say that my statment about guys is not always true so to test it guys what do you think when you see an attractive ladie?
2006-11-16 02:51:57 · 29 answers · asked by Brian 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
<-------Married...
I usually think
"DAMN he's HOT....what was I supposed to get at the grocery store again?... and SHOOT...I forgot we've got cubscouts tonight!!".....
Yep...usually goes something like that :)
2006-11-16 02:54:26 · answer #1 · answered by Shakira 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Nah. I just think. Wow, he's hot...like Daniel Craig (the new James Bond). But, I am madly in love with my dh and even though he's almost 41, bald and a little paunchy, he's the best looking guy ever. For women, I think it's more about the emotional connection than the hot bod. (Thankfully, tho, my dh does take care of himself and still looks good.) Oh, and I don't think men immediately think about sex when they see a hot gal. There's a fine line between acknowledgement and lust. We all have to be careful about crossing that line, even mentally.
2006-11-16 10:56:41 · answer #2 · answered by Joanna V 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is true for ladies also, but I don't let my mind wander that far off into fantasy land about it. I do think "wow, he's hot.... " and then check out his goods, I mean I'm not going to lie. But, then shortly afterward I think "my husband is hotter because he's a whole package... and then some" and I realize again why I married him.
2006-11-16 10:56:08 · answer #3 · answered by Peach 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When I see a hot guy, I just admire the view. The thought of doing anything physical kind of grosses me out, but I still like to look!
2006-11-16 10:55:19 · answer #4 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Whoa baby! Yes, the same is true for ladies. We just don't follow that first thought into the gutter. It's more like admiring art.
2006-11-16 10:53:40 · answer #5 · answered by Joanne B 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I personally admire the physic and the eyes.. Do I get hot all over and heated up? No... I don't think there is anything wrong with admire beauty on both sides....
2006-11-16 10:55:50 · answer #6 · answered by tmjf461 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When i see a hot guy, and I'm married, I think , gees, he's hot. The thought of being with him never crosses my mind, I just admire his physical appearance.
2006-11-16 10:53:29 · answer #7 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Both are true many men and women think of sex first. Don't make this about gender or generalize. But it is also true that many men a women just think someone is attractive or handsome first.
In fact in my marriage, she thinks of sex first and I think of attractiveness.
2006-11-16 11:06:37 · answer #8 · answered by jryanwinterhaven 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Although I admire him for looking GREAT (and I may even smile)...nothing sexual ever crosses my mind b/c I know what I have at home! :-)
2006-11-16 10:57:15 · answer #9 · answered by D M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Why can't my husband look like that?" HEHEHE! I think wow he is hot, and never think about it again. I am just joking about wanting my hubby to look like that, i love him the way he is. The thought that crosses my mind is just that they are hot, unless it is Usher or Mathew McConahey (not sure how to spell) then i immediately think about what i would do to them
2006-11-16 10:57:49 · answer #10 · answered by micah z 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
When I see a hot guy, I dont think about sex... I think about making out though. lol
2006-11-16 10:53:58 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋