2006-11-16 02:46:18 · 21 answers · asked by Sarafriday 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, you set yourself up for the hurt, and you have no one else to blame. People who fall for married people are only living in the moment and need to know they will eventually be hurt, it is NEVER a good idea to become involved with a married man/woman.
2006-11-16 02:50:03 · answer #1 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope I am understanding your question.. Remember the OLD saying, 2 wrongs don't make a right.. Just because he is doing it doesn't make it right.. Being in love with a married man is a foolish and useless action.. I've been there and so have many others, its a no win situation 99% of the time.... There are so many single people out there, that you have a better chance to have a complete relationship with.. Don't put yourself in a hurt position deliberately.. Move on to someone that you have a chance to have a life with.. Less hurt...
2006-11-16 02:51:25 · answer #2 · answered by tmjf461 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the simple answer is no it is not wrong. The choice you make because of it can be.
You haven't given us enough information to give any advice though. You haven't told us if he loves you too. You haven't told us if he know how you feel. You haven't told us if his 'significant other" knows how you feel.
The one thing I can recommend, no matter what the out come is that you be honest with everyone involved. He may not love you back, he may want to maintain both relationships until he can decide what to do, he may not want to have anything to do with you, he may want to be "friends-with-benefits", he may want a polyamorous relationship with you and her.
Talk to him and based on what he says, drop out of his life and move on, continue to develop the relationship, work to change this to a friendship or an uncommitted but open relationship or a committed relationship knowing that he is involved with someone else (and she knows).
2006-11-16 02:55:17 · answer #3 · answered by jryanwinterhaven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely, and do unto others as you would have them do unto you. Do you want to be first in a mans life or his side kick? Do you want to spend all your holidasy alone,and waking up alone? Thats what you will have with a married man, an empty,lonely and a life full of lies. I have never allowed myself to even consider falling for a married man out of respect for myself and respect for other woman! Consider amrried man off limits, don't go there!
2006-11-16 02:57:49 · answer #4 · answered by lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's suited & what's misguided? It relies upon on your values, your experience of right and incorrect. Do you sense relaxed being the single that is destroying yet another's marriage / inflicting the breaking apart of a kinfolk? to be waiting to locate somebody to love is excellent, yet ought to you face your experience of right and incorrect whilst it particularly is on the cost of somebody else's happiness? in simple terms positioned, ought to you face your self? How might you sense in case you're in the different individual's (the spouse) shoes? You gotta weigh each physique of those questions. If on the top of it you nonetheless sense that the affection is nicely worth all of the emotional investment, then pass forward.
2016-10-22 04:51:09 · answer #5 · answered by jaisigh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it doesnt matter if he love someone else. Two wrongs dont make a right sweet heart. Married men are trouble! And you never totally have them. Forget about it!
2006-11-16 02:49:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to "fall in love" with someone when you all ready have someone else? Do you EVEN know what you want? It is like you want your cake and eat it too. You can't be in love with two people at the same time!!!
2006-11-16 03:26:52 · answer #7 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know sometimes you cant help who you have feelings for , but you are setting yourself up for a hard fall. ##1 he will not leave his wife and ##2 if he does it will be for the one he is love with. He is using you. GET OUT NOW AND DON NOT LOOK BACK
2006-11-16 03:02:43 · answer #8 · answered by mssgtmidnight 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's a bad idea. If you know he is married stay away. Other wise you are only setting yourself up for heartache. No matter what the out come.
2006-11-16 02:54:19 · answer #9 · answered by tryinghard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong to fall in love with them. After all, you can't chose who you fall in love with. BUT, it's wrong to act on those feelings.
2006-11-16 02:48:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋