im sorry i did not specify that my husband and i had so many
problems at our appartment that we moved into when we got married we had to end back up at our parents house and were
are going to buy us a new home in january so thats how my mother comes into my room and barther me. but all of your answer were the best! and i thought that in the first place but
i did not want to be mean and rude to my mother. all of your
answer are good and i can take critisms im weak to my mother
but this is the first time my husband has ever been mad as
hell with me because of what i confronted him with. he has
always talked to me no matter what our problem was. i have
no problem with admitting that im wrong. i want to appoligize
to my husband now but he will not listen or answer my
call or text i really feel bad and i did not mean to hurt him
i will make a vow today and i already have when this mess
started to not listen to my mother about my husband anymore
we have a good life .
2006-11-16 02:40:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Allow your husband to vent for a bit and then he will be open to your apology. Don't be rough on your mum, she loves you and cares for you deeply, and only states what she sees.
You can always listen to what she has to say, but as the old saying goes, take it with a grain of salt. Best wishes.
2006-11-16 02:47:57 · answer #1 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Remember your vow you made to your husband when you were married.. You are to leave the parental control behind and move on with him... Text your husband a text saying you know you were wrong and you are trying to make things right. That with his support and help you will always put him first and will talk to him about everything.. And make sure to let him know you love him... Good Luck dear...
2006-11-16 02:45:55 · answer #2 · answered by tmjf461 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to meet your husband for lunch or supper (in private, away from your mother) and apologize and tell him that you will not allow your mother to discuss your marriage with you any more. (You know you need to move ASAP, right?) If you have a good marriage, he'll forgive you pretty soon. You are newlyweds. The first year is usually the hardest. You are still adjusting to each other. Your mother loves you, you know. She just overstepped her boundaries (being new to this, too) and needs to apologize to both of you. You both need to forgive her this once.
2006-11-16 02:57:48 · answer #3 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn from your mistakes and move on. Certainly you don't want to be rude to your mom and nor should you have to be. You and your hubby could divorce in the future but your mom will always be your mom. Take what ever positive advice she may give and anything you feel is mediling or hurting your relationship with your hubby just tell her you need her not to do that anymore. Give your hubby some time to him self. If he goes forever ignoring you maybe find a man your mom likes? LOL Just joking!!!!!!! dont do that!
2006-11-16 02:44:37 · answer #4 · answered by trinity082482 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
still talk to you mom and tell her that pain that she is making in you and your husbands life. and if your mom tell you thing do not let it take you over.. remember you husband come first now.. good luck..
2006-11-16 02:49:02 · answer #5 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But your mom needs to stay out of your life ..as far as telling you what to do...Have her go to your husband and tell him she was wrong and maybe that will help
2006-11-16 02:55:39 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 15:18:07 · answer #7 · answered by wheeington 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good luck and as i said be a wife to your husband not a child to your mom
2006-11-16 02:44:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
remember you took an oath with your husband and that by no means includes your mother
2006-11-16 03:08:50 · answer #9 · answered by john n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him cool off! Then, make it up to him with love!
2006-11-16 02:43:59 · answer #10 · answered by Apple 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋