how tell if your man is cheating?

Question

i want to know if my man is cheating on me.

Answer 1

axe him

Answer 2

1. The most common warning is when a partner tells you something is amiss and you don't believe it. He or she may say, 'This marriage isn't working,' or 'I am not happy.'
2. Sudden change -- or interest -- in appearance.
3. If your partner says, 'You need to see a psychiatrist,' 'You need help,' 'Get a job,' 'Lose weight,' or 'Go to the gym,' and is constantly critical, it's all part of the same theme -- which is that there is something wrong with you. Unconsciously, they are setting it up to say their partner was nuts and wouldn't even go for help. Another tip-off is when he or she starts picking fights about something you are good at, so you fight back and then he or she calls you argumentative.
4. Gives you guilt gifts.
5. If you get the cold shoulder at your spouse's company holiday party where everyone used to be friendly, it's a sign that his colleagues either know about the affair and figure you are on the way out, so why be nice? Or your partner has been making critical comments about you so they think you are no good.
6. When a partner is sneaking around a bit, it's a sign. Maybe he or she takes secret cell phone calls on the porch instead of using the phone by the bed, or maybe he is out on weeknights whereas he used to be home watching television. If you see that a person is not around that much and is gone on different nights, something may be up.
7. Sometimes people with a background of these types of things may be more likely to repeat them. There are exceptions and people can change patterns in their life, but if we are talking about red flags, history is a red flag.

Answer 3

If you think he is he is.. Trust your six sense. Get a detective, I know they are expensive, but not as expensive if you proof he is cheating. I knew , but just did not want to admit that the man I loved would do that to me. In face he did it to me 4 times before I had guts to say enough. If he isn't cheating you have lost nothing. But trust your six sense. Oh, put a device on your phone and check the cell phone bills for a lot of phone calls you do not know the numbers. Check on him at lunch time to see if he is meeting someone. Check the computer see who is emailing. Good luck I hope I am wrong but I don't think so.

Answer 4

I few clues that I came across and then confirmed to be an affair.

off the wall arguments of their where abouts

cell phone .. being turned off , he would call and get his quota call in then I couldn't reach him
over protective of his cell phone

over explaining certain things

coming straight in from work and taking a shower

Answer 5

The signs vary, but you will notice changes in his behavior. He may come home late from work (telling you that he has to work overtime), he may seem distant and distracted when he is at home. He might all of a sudden be protective of his cell phone, not wanting you to see the bill or see who he's called.

Answer 6

The day you think he cheated on you,whenever that is, have sex with him and make sure he cums somewhere you can see.If its not alot, he cheated or just jacks off.

Answer 7

Does he daydream....Does he spend a lot of time outside of your home....Does he find excusses to get out.....Is he acting differently lately......Check his cell phone, or come home unexpected......just watch his moods.
Try planning a weekend away... just the two of you, and see how he reacts to that.

If he is cheating on you.......he can't hide it forever. You will find out....
Good Luck to you!!!

Answer 8

he does things that are not usual, he is extra sweet or extra happy sometimes, but not you is the reason, he might call you other girls name, he is sometimes in bad mood but you are not the reason and he will say something bad with his guy friends/coworkers, but he is too careful to mention any girls name. he will not stay long in your side. his eyes tell it all. you can feel it too, listen to the voice inside you,you can feel that.