When my wife and i have make love i can go for hours at in, but when i get ready to have intercourse and i put it in her i only last for a minute then it goes limp. And i cant get erected for awhile. This is not fair to my wife what should i do to cure this problem?
2006-11-16 02:37:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
stop playing with yourself, and satisfy your wife for a change.
2006-11-16 02:40:53 · answer #1 · answered by joey h 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
What's your definition of "make love"? Generally, that is considered "intercourse". If you're talking about oral or foreplay that's a different story. It could just be a mental thing, maybe you've had a bad experiance and now that's just in the back of your mind and causing this problem. Or maybe its just a sensation thing and the way it feels is different. Try seeing a doctor and, if there's nothing physically wrong, try a therapist to see if it is an unresolved issue.
2006-11-16 02:45:32 · answer #2 · answered by irishgypsy88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best place to start in your case would be your doctor's office. You might have prostrate issues, diabetes, high cholesterol/heart problem, or other health problems that are interfering with you sex life. If you get an all clear from the doctor you should see a counselor as your next step. They might be able to help you find out if this is a psychological issue - something in your relationship that is unresolved or self-esteem issues.
Best of luck - I know this can be frustrating for both of you.
2006-11-16 02:43:53 · answer #3 · answered by greyrider 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There can be very serious physical reasons why this happens, You need to go to a doctor first and have him or her check out you physically. This could be signs of diabetes, high blood pressure, low testosterone levels, low grade prostate infection, etc.
Before you do anything else, go to a physician. This can also be a response to stress or sexual expectations (AKA: it has happened to me once so it will happen again - "a self fulfilling prophesy"). And until you get checked out things will only get worse. and no one here has enough information to distinguish between what kind of problem it might be.
But, unless you have a severe heart condition, it can be easily treated no matter what the cause. You need to have the right cause to get the right answer
2006-11-16 02:45:56 · answer #4 · answered by jryanwinterhaven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know? What do you think is the problem?
Maybe dont get so hot and heavy until you get to the intercourse part. You could try a penis ring to keep it up and last longer and make sure your comfortable. Sometimes being too hot and etc can ruin the mood.
2006-11-16 02:41:20 · answer #5 · answered by trinity082482 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
go see a doctor about getting viagra. wear a ring that way it, eh, holds you back a while.. sorry trying to word an answer to this kind of question can be difficult. Maybe more floor play and spice things up before you hit the finale'. Goodluck!!
2006-11-16 02:40:49 · answer #6 · answered by yourmygoodfeeling 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
by controlling you mind set is a great power but learning to with hold your releases you will make your experience and her more powerful. another way is to help her reach the same state of mind that you are at is by setting up your encounter days before.. by putting things in her head that will drive her nut and make her cant wait to see you.. thes are the thing i do for my wife and she keep on cumming back for more... good luck..
2006-11-16 02:41:49 · answer #7 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to your doctor about it but really if you stress about it and already assume that is what will happen then maybe that stress is part of the problem, there are lots of pills out there now though so really talk to your doctor and they will help you.
2006-11-16 02:44:49 · answer #8 · answered by Bebe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to your doctor and see if there are any medical reasons for your situation. But, as long as you give her the pleasure that she needs in other ways, she probably won't complain too much.
2006-11-16 02:42:16 · answer #9 · answered by tipper 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be embarassed but give your doctor a call and tell him you would like to try a sample of viagra, and go from there>
2006-11-16 03:34:30 · answer #10 · answered by dominicaquilino 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
More foreplay. Pay more attention to her needs with manipulation before entering her. You can bring her all the way before you get to the door if need be.
2006-11-16 02:43:27 · answer #11 · answered by rac 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋