My boyfriend and I have recently got back together and sometimes I wonder why. He was in a relationship with a gurl who broke his heart in two and because of her I believe she was the reason we broke up. Last night we were talking and he said something like well she pissed me off for good and I wanted to get back with you. He said that I have always been there and when we werent together he realized just how much he loved me. He means everything to me and yet I am still scared. Scared of the fact that he has broken up with me before over her but yet swears to me he loves me and me only. He practically lives with me and here lately has been spending alot more time with me. Whats your opinion? Thanks to all
2006-11-16 02:30:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
I'd have to say it's the typical Male mind. He does love you. Maybe not the love that means TOGETHER FOREVER. But he seems to truly care for you. So show him you feel the same way.
If i were you i would be patient, he did just have his heart broken which i can't honestly say about a guy so I'm sure it doesn't happen to him often.
He might have dated you first but guys change there minds between who they like so often its hard to keep up. Enjoy your time together and do keep thinking about him breaking it off. It would ruin the whole relationship. You'll probably go threw many boyfriends so enjoy them while they last.
2006-11-16 02:40:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh hun.... really? Have u read ur question outloud? U need to know that u deserve far more respect than ur situation is allowing. Being w/someone because they cant make it work with another is a disaster waiting to happen, and unless u walk away, ur the only one thats goin to get hurt, plus how healthy of a relationship can u have if ur aways waiting for the other shoe to drop so to speak? U also need to have self respect and know ur worth someone who'll love u and only u, u first!! u only!!, not some sloppy second. Now im not saying that he'll never love u, im just going by the info uve written, if u truly feel in ur heart that u both can turn it around....then YOU call the shots, theres nothing wrong with having him chase YOU!, but if it were me, Id spead some time alone w/o a boyfriend to figure out what about myself im not happy w/that i feel the need to have a relationship w/ someone who will cast me off so quickly.....
good luck
2006-11-16 11:06:00 · answer #2 · answered by bellajns666 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you believe and trust him then follow your heart. If you have doubts and second thoughts in the back of your mind then take time apart and be single and see how he acts. If he jumps in to a relationship with another girl or the ex then its not meant to be with you and him. If you guys can survive on your own then get back together.If the good times weigh out the bad and the bad really dont matter stay together.At the end of the day make sure your happy.
2006-11-16 10:37:55 · answer #3 · answered by FASHION*DIVA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may mean everything to you and you might still love him. But really think this over. Take a look at some pictures of you and him together. How do you feel about it? Look at this relationship straight in the eye, no rose-colored glasses...nothing. Is it really worth rebuilding?
Once you have answered those questions, you should know the best decision for you.
2006-11-16 10:40:15 · answer #4 · answered by asturiasangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder if he is on the rebound. I suggest that you tell him how you feel, and that you want to take it slow to be sure that getting together is a good thing for both of you.
In the meantime I would avoid the "practically living together" thing and limit my time with him.
It may turn out that the relationship works out great, I just think it will be best for both of you if you take it slow.
2006-11-16 10:39:52 · answer #5 · answered by ÜFÖ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this probably isn't this answer you want, but if things are this complicated, and he was seeing another girl, he's not worth your time. there are much better guys out there. he sounds a little bit insecure like he just wants to be with someone, and he doesn't care who.
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2006-11-16 10:34:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it. Give him one more chance, and if he leaves you again over X girlfriend issues, then you have to leave him. No one deserves to be put through that sh#t (sorry i don't swear)
2006-11-16 10:34:50 · answer #7 · answered by bluestar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
charge him 4 meals,bed & board,see how long he lasts then
2006-11-16 10:48:53 · answer #8 · answered by golden girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋