I have a wonderful husband, and feel bad about this... I don't know what it means but I find myself wanting to spend most of my time alone. I also notice that I daydream about people on tv shows.. is this normal?
2006-11-16 01:33:41 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What kind of Daydreams?
2006-11-16 01:35:25 · answer #1 · answered by King 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's pretty much normal. have you been with him long or too long? if so, you might be experiencing some loss of self which makes you want to find more about yourself. This happens if you've married early (not implying that you have, just an "if").
Abt the daydreaming with people in tv shows, hey, everyone daydreams abt them right? Those people on tv look way better than most people. You can ask anyone and they'll say that they've daydreamed abt someone on tv one way or another.
2006-11-16 01:42:58 · answer #2 · answered by Maggie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How is your relationship with your husband? Do you daydream about people in your life, the people you know? Ask yourself some serious questions....
Otherwise the question you asked.....about spending time alone... or daydreaming about people on TV, sounds innocent to me.
Bottom line....you may need to ask yourself how you feel about your marriage in general. Just be honest with your own feelings.
People are really good at kidding themselves!!
Good Luck to you....
2006-11-16 01:47:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. I sometimes question if my fiance is the "one", but I ALWAYS want to spend time with him and miss him when he is gone... but sometimes feel like I'm settling. LOL. so what about that!!! and about the daydreaming on TV shows... what do you mean? Like you wish your life was like that? or your relationship like that? i was watching a movie and this couple was sooooo passionate and I daydreamed kinda like I wish I had that all the time. but come on. this is real life.
you said you had a "wonderful" husband. So...Do you love him?
2006-11-16 01:35:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't blow it !!!!!!!!!!!! Let me tell you I have been thru divorce.........I was being abused so after 13 yrs I sd enough and left. For three yrs i struggled to put food on the table and work, and spend time with my 4 boys. I dreamed of true love and be married to someone who would, not drink, be abusive and be good to my kids. When i finally met a man and married him...I though I had died and gone to heaven...for about 2 yrs and then i found out he had a secert life. I won't go into it but I will say that i worked hard at trying to save the marriage. He work hard on nothing but his secert life...........in the end i was sporting one hell of a black eye and trying to keep my head above water.........So my point is...if you have good man or woman.........don't go looking for another one because............you never know what you'll find. Try to do things together that are fun........if nothing else see a therapist......don't give up...do what you have to so you don't end up alone. I promise being alone at 50 is not easy.
2006-11-16 01:47:53 · answer #5 · answered by texasue77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personal space is great in a relationship. I am certainly the one that need space all the time myself...and I do get it. She goes out with her girlfriends without me, I get to be alone every now and then, and it works for us. As for daydreaming...I think its normal. I mean that is all it is right? Fantasizing? Unless you actually start pursuing these fantasies without your husband (ie. cheating) then you are on dangerous grounds.
2006-11-16 01:38:39 · answer #6 · answered by Clock Watcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your bored and need some excitement brought into the marriage. You have to much time on your hands and you watch to much t.v. I say find a job or do things around the house and stay busy. Talk to your husband and tell him that you are feeling ignored because something has to be wrong with the relationship if you are fantasizing about a star on t.v
2006-11-16 02:41:13 · answer #7 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantasizing is very normal. But, if you spend more time doing that than you do with your husband, I'd say there is a serious problem in your relationship. The longer you are married, the more life tends to be routine. Have all the fantasies that you want....but deliver the results to your husband!
2006-11-16 01:39:31 · answer #8 · answered by Lori 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you stress?If yes,go get some pills.I think it's normal to daydream bout anything but to be alone for so long without wanting to notice him,is really bad.Get some help friend!
2006-11-16 01:37:27 · answer #9 · answered by ike mie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like maybe you have some depression and that isnt a bad thing alot of people dont have enough saratonon in there body i know thats not spelled rite but it is the chemical that makes us happy ect and if you go to your dr he can give you a med that will help you out
2006-11-16 01:52:41 · answer #10 · answered by momoftwobestkids 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋