What do you do when you come home after a 16 hour work day and your wife has ripped out the pages, that have pictures of girls, in your new Maxim that arrived today? She is always looking to see if I am cheating on her, ie looking through the cell phone bill. If I even glance at another women we when are out at the store she get pissed and goes off say "what I am not good enough for you" etc...
2006-11-16 01:25:36 · 21 answers · asked by lodleader 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I forgot to add that she is 8 months pregnant, and she has gotten worse since the pregnancy.
2006-11-16 01:53:51 · update #1
You didn't know this before you were married? You're screwed, dude.
2006-11-16 01:31:23 · answer #1 · answered by edward_the_l0ngshanks 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she has no reason to think you have cheated on her then she should let it go. She sound insecure and scared and she is probably an emotional wreck right now with all her hormones going haywire. She is going way to far ripping out the pages in a magazine because she needs to understand she is not the only woman in this world that you are going to look at. You should tell her you have nothing to hide why is she looking at the telephone bills if you had something to hide you would be hiding those bills. Tell her how attractive she is and tell her how much you love her but tell her how unattractive it is that she is so insecure and worried all the time. A woman like that is going to drive her husband to cheating. Good luck!!
2006-11-16 02:48:03 · answer #2 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her she's beautiful every chance you get. Hold her at night in your arms. Provide that service a husband should on a constant basis. Since she's expecting take it very easy but tag it every chance you get.
These type of women have a problem with their bodies and self esteem. You can tap that A $ $ constantly as a result of her insecurity. Get her to the point she's constantly worn out by the pipe fitting. The jealously crap will fade fast.
It's will be better than Maaxim could ever be.
2006-11-16 04:01:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal for women to be jelouse... I mean from what you have mentioned i can tell that she loves you so much and she is affraid to lose you... Be patient and don't try to make her jelouse, i'll give you some ideas... See, when you are watching tv with her and there is an attractive women at that moment look at your wife and tell her wow you are so beautiful honey...etc even though if that tv girl is more pretty just let her know that she is the best and most beautiful woman on earth... Best of Luck...Peace:)
2006-11-16 06:21:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
could she Love's you very plenty and she or he do no longer prefer to unfastened you or could bec. you have historic previous to her that for the duration of the previous you're a womaniser she improve into jealousy. Why do no longer you consult together with her, show your love in many way or attempt to do something which will opposite her zealousness. in case you have little ones attempt to convey them out just to have exciting with your individual kinfolk like picnic, watching movies or park.and each so often, you have sup fee her additionally. small and easy component ability plenty. My query is! do nonetheless enjoyed you spouse? God bless...
2016-10-22 04:45:43 · answer #5 · answered by oleyar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women act like this when there husbands slack off, If you don't treat her like she is the only girl in the world she will get jealous.
She feels cheated like she don't look good enough.
Make her feel special. Maybe then she will calm down.
2006-11-16 01:57:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have not gave her any reason to believe you are cheating. Then I think you need to check on her. I was married for 17 years and I never cheated on him but he was ALWAYS accusing me even while i was at work or just to go to the grocery store. I found out that all through our marriage he cheated on me. I know it sounds crazy but if you are not guilty then she MIGHT be.
2006-11-16 01:51:43 · answer #7 · answered by horsecrazy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
a jealous wife is an insecure, unhappy and less fulfilled wife.
it is your move to make her feel secure, happy and contented.
give time to think and justify her jealousy before you think of your 16 hr job.
THINK: with your 16 hr job, do you still have quality time with her and your family?
if you will continue with your time distribution, prepare for the worse such as broken windows and flying plates and saucers!
spotpx@lycos.com
2006-11-16 01:42:26 · answer #8 · answered by spotpx 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you didn't do something to make her that way, then she has a trust issue or a self esteen problem. Sit down and talk to her about it. Could be, a problem that you have nothing to do with except being a escape goat.
It sucks, I've been there and done that; and was totally innocent.
2006-11-16 01:42:21 · answer #9 · answered by Wondrin Dude 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're the one who married you - was she like this before you got hitched?
If not, tell her that she can go to counseling with you, without you or by herself, but if she doesn't get a grip on her issues, then your marriage will be over.
If so, you signed on after full disclosure - you were warned. Suck it up and either deal with it or see your options above.
2006-11-16 01:32:34 · answer #10 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
uh oh, well sounds like she is jealous and territorial. well sounds like she is insecure. well it sounds like it is time to get a divorce if she is jealous over nothing. nothing is wrong with having female friends. my boyfriend has female friends and I dont ask him if hes cheating, and I dont monitor him on icq, yahoo and msn. im sorry she is doing this. good luck. if u wanna talk my im is daydreamer18862. tell her you dont like her looking at your cell bill. just tell her that if she dont have trust in you or faith in you to get lost. well mood swings can b one of the things too.
2006-11-16 01:56:18 · answer #11 · answered by dark^wishy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋