2006-11-16 01:05:40 · 15 answers · asked by Mikey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well its not like i treat her like crap, i treat her very good actually. But i dont want her to get the idea that she has me wrapped around her finger...She says she really loves me and how i treat her so good yet she sometimes starts arguements over little things...I just dont want her to think shes won me easily...
2006-11-16 01:19:59 · update #1
You will lose them. No one wants to be treated like dirt.
2006-11-16 01:07:14 · answer #1 · answered by Lt 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well just look at the posts here. Girls obsessed over guys who treat them like dirt. Nice guys who can't get or keep a girl.
But in the end you gotta be true to yourself. If you really like her do you wanna treat her mean? If not my advise is still to not let her think she has won you easily. She will think wining you was of no value.
2006-11-16 09:11:32 · answer #2 · answered by hankthecowdog 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm curious where you heard such a stupid rule of thumb. Treat anyone mean and they'll treat you quite the same way. If you're referring to another person, as in a girlfriend, treat her mean and you'd better get used to being single. Treat her too mean and you'll quickly get labelled an abuser. Abuse comes in many forms, not just physical .. and emotional and mental can often be much worse.
Smarten up.
2006-11-16 09:08:38 · answer #3 · answered by Jaded 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, dont start treating her like crap, just because she annoys you by bringing up the small stuff. ITS SMALL STUFF, REMEMBER? Just keep doing what youre doing by being nice and treating her well. Try not to let her nagging get to you. That may show her that you have tons of patience. Maybe then she will eventually stop her bitching.
2006-11-16 10:04:33 · answer #4 · answered by oliveirasgirl2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will lose her, its not true that woman stay with man that treat them bad, treat her like you want to treat her, if it is nice then for crap sake just be nice, relationships are confusing enough you know
2006-11-16 09:08:12 · answer #5 · answered by ladylunamina 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should keep a balance, if ur too mean u'll definitely lose her & she'll eventually look for someone who treats her better..then again if ur always "too nice" she may get bored and walk all over you..the key is to be nice yet still stay in control, let her know "ur the man"..that is sexy!
2006-11-16 09:13:42 · answer #6 · answered by GucciRush 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends how old she is....when I was in college, I seemed to go after the bad boys....you know, the ones that treated me like ****
I grew up though. So if you want a good healthy relationship, treat her like a queen.
2006-11-16 09:08:03 · answer #7 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Treat them like you wish to be treated. You have other kinky stuff to play out thats fine but if you want respect you better give it.
2006-11-16 09:18:27 · answer #8 · answered by JoeP 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you really shouldn't be wasting your time and hers playing games... enjoy your relationship and treat each other good because life is too short to be mean. you know she could be having self-esteem problems or be insecure about something...if you care you would be sensitive to her needs...unless she's playing games too..then you are both just wasting your time cause that's never going to be a rewarding relationship.
2006-11-16 09:24:07 · answer #9 · answered by feelingfroggee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In short, unless she's mean, yes. If only we could be honest in relationships instead of resorting to game-playing. I think we play these games because we are insecure and scared of being hurt.
Think of it this way, you tell someone you love them and they reject you. You don't tell someone you love them and you lose them, which is worse?
He who dares, wins!
2006-11-16 09:15:40 · answer #10 · answered by spamela 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋