2006-11-16 00:37:51 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
My husband thought it was the most amazing thing ever to see our girl being born. He pulled her out once her shoulders had cleared, he cut the umbilical cord, he was very involved in the entire thing. He had a few moments when he turned white and got a bit woozy, but it was actually before the delivery part.
As for changing how he sees me sexually, I can only say he is as 'attentive' as ever so no this didnt turn him away at all.
2006-11-16 00:53:50 · answer #1 · answered by MaPetiteHippopotame 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I recently had our 6th child. Due to being in the military he has missed 2 of the births. My husband has loved watching the babies be born and No, it didnt change how he viewed any part of me, other than made him even more in love with me and what he had made and experienced together. There are some men though, that the birth process does affect them and their feelings towards their partner. Sometimes they look at their partner as a mother and not a lover. If your partner doesnt want to watch the baby actually coming out, then let him stay up at your head and just be there for you. I also dont think it has anything to do with being a teenage father. We have been married since we were 18 ALMOST 18 years we have been married and It didnt bother my husband at all as a teen dad to see our children be born.
2006-11-16 08:42:18 · answer #2 · answered by mpwife_99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband was fine. It didn't change anything. I would like to think that would be the case for most men. If they did have an issue with seeing your vagina after seeing you give birth, that would be odd. They didn't have a problem putting the baby in there. It shouldn't be an issue to see it come out. Right?
2006-11-16 08:45:33 · answer #3 · answered by luvmuzik 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until the birth occurs, no man "knows" how he is going to feel afterwards. I have heard men say it brought them closer to their wife, and I have heard men say that they have never been able to look at their wives again in a completely sexual way.
I made my hubby stay at the head of the bed, holding my hands. After the baby was born he saw a little of the aftermath and commented on it a couple times. But it has not lessoned his sexual desire for me at all.
2006-11-16 08:48:18 · answer #4 · answered by Gem 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My partner has said he wants to be with me when our baby is born but doesn't feel like he can go down "there". A friend of ours just had a baby and her husband is coming to terms with what he saw in the delivery room !. It can effect the way some men see their women, but each man is different I suppose.
2006-11-16 08:43:00 · answer #5 · answered by Neilsbaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have 3 children including twins & my partner was right there watching everything both times, he was almost sick when our 1st was born as her head crowned then went back in (so i'm told). He told me both times he was so proud which meant the world to me, when the twins were born it was like the water log ride at a water park, didn't get a chance to see much, they just flew out!
I don't think it changes anything, obviously they've seen a side to you they'd never witnessed before but it's all natural!
2006-11-16 10:03:44 · answer #6 · answered by C Greene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I saw my daughter being born, it was the most wonderful, spiritual feeling I have had. No, it does not change the way a guy views your vagina. I still enjoyed and found my partner to be erotic. Sex and child birth are completely different, even though the same body part is being used. Its like asking, if you saw your partner having a piss, would that change the way you see his penis.
2006-11-16 08:46:52 · answer #7 · answered by sunline 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Not at all, my husband went through the whole delivery process with me and even keep me update...like when he saw my baby's hair at his first view he will excitedly tell me and encourage me to go on..after going through together not only brought our love even closer... most important is he knows how his wife had a hard time giving birth to our two lovely children...
therefore it's a good experience for men to understand better of the whole giving birth process...
2006-11-16 10:46:09 · answer #8 · answered by Elaine N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wanted so desperately to be present at my daughter's birth... but I had stayed up with my wife the night before and told by the doctor to go home and come back late in the afternoon when she would probably give birth... and she gave birth during my walk home! I was so damned angry but at the same time happy to know that both my wife and daughter were both well. I appreciated my wife more after the birth of my little girl (today in her 30s, married with 2 children of her own... one a 15 year boy who towers over me, and my little princess granddaughter).
2006-11-16 08:51:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My girl is 16 im 19. We have two kids together and when she gave birth to our son and daughter i was there. I saw both of them come out and it was thew best thing i have seen. I love my girl to death it has not changed anything i just love her more and thank her everyday for giving me 2 beutiful kids. We are pregnant again with twins and im happy to say i will be there by her side.
2006-11-16 09:41:15 · answer #10 · answered by esna a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋