Look, I am a 14 year old boy and I have just emailed the girl I really like (same age) my feeling. She said she never thought like that and she would just like to be friends. I said ok but inside I am determined to wait for her. When we graduate from high school then I would ask her once more, and that time her thoughts would have matured up!
Please give me some words of encouragement!
2006-11-16 00:27:18 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
huh??
2006-11-16 00:31:45 · answer #1 · answered by mypnut07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't give you words of encouragement simply because you may spend you entire teen years pining for someone that only wants to be friends. You're young, now is the fun time in life before the realities of being an adult set in. Have fun, see other girls and then when you two graduate, if you still have the same feelings for her, then you can ask her again. Please don't put a hold on your emotions in hopes of MAYBE her wanting to be a little more serious with you You only live once, enjoy it.
2006-11-16 00:33:13 · answer #2 · answered by cookiefactory4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you are doing the right thing backing off when she said to. However, let me just give you some advise from this old bird who has been on the "youth" side of the fence (Yea, I am 26, not really considered "old" but those teen years seem so far behind me) If it is meant to be, it will be. I remember this boy I had this huge crush on, I was madly in love with him, I would hope and wish that he and I would be together. It crushed me whe it never happened, however I have a husband now who is beyond what I was hoping for, three kids out of this world.
Just don't keep focused on this one girl, because you just might miss out on the love of your life.
2006-11-16 00:32:11 · answer #3 · answered by newcovenant0 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey your too young to wait around. I know you've heard this a thousand times but it's true. Even though you are a mature 14yr old don't try to grow up and grow old too fast. Enjoy your life to the fullest while your still young and if you were meant to be with this girl it will happen soon enough just don't waste your time sitting back waiting on something that may or may not happen. Good Luck!
2006-11-16 00:39:06 · answer #4 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is not ready to have that kind of relationship with you right now, stay friends with her. I wouldn't suggest waiting for her in the respect that you don't date anyone else. It will be easier to get over the disappointment if you go ahead and look for another girl friend. If it is meant to be, some day things will fall right into place for the two of you. Now, go and be happy! There are plenty of fish in the sea. I am 39 years old, and there were many boys that were "the one" in my mind. Now that I am older, I know that you have to keep moving on, and God will put you with the right person, whether it is now or much later. I wish you the best!
2006-11-16 00:32:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I am a woman who has seen alot in my life and I would like to be honest with you. When a girl says that to you, well, she probably means it. I would suggest that you do not stay idle. Work hard in school and try to see if there is anyone else you might want to get to know. You may find that there are other girls you might be interested in. Don't spend too much time on one person right now. You will probably change over the next few years and so will she. You may find that you dont like her so much anymore and you might miss a really incredible girl who does want to be with you right now.
2006-11-16 00:37:15 · answer #6 · answered by brcrro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is good that you can share yours feelings. Maybe you are right and the girl is just not mature enough. let time go by and enjoy all your friends she may be one of them. 14 is still young, just enjoy now and the future will be here soon enough. Sometimes things do not turn out as you wish but each passing year brings new and exciting things. Good luck
2006-11-16 00:35:38 · answer #7 · answered by glasgowgone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not the end of the world,you are only 14 theres a lot of great things waitting for you
Enjoy your youth,study hard continue hoping forthe best,and take all the bad things as a challenge.Good lick in life and pray hard.
2006-11-16 00:43:03 · answer #8 · answered by AmandaNikolah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't wait for the same person your entire life just go out there and have fun and live your life and then when you graduate if you still feel the same way then ask her to go out or something ok
2006-11-16 00:31:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude your 14,probably by the time your gonna be graduating from high school you will like 10 other different girls.Dont worry about it much right now.
2006-11-16 00:31:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I encourage you to move on. Don't wait years for one girl who will probably end up rejecting you.
2006-11-16 00:33:05 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋