I had lots of BFs but they all dumped me.
2006-11-15 23:58:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I would ask myself why they all dumped me before looking for another.
2006-11-16 00:01:16 · answer #1 · answered by Jon O 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Why did they all dump you? Did you dump any of them? Before you start to think of another relationship please get a sheet of paper and write on the names of the guys you went out with - length of relationship - what attracted you to each guy - why the relationship ended the way it did? Be analytical. Be careful you don't end up as the 'boys toy'. Respect yourself.
There is no guarantee in any thing, absolutely nothing under the sky. We all have to learn at an early age how to be self reliant in as many ways as possible. Because, eventually, regardless how much we love, we let down people and people let us down . So we are all failures. Nothing is permanent. Learn to create your own happiness. When you are secure within yourself it really does not matter if you have a boyfriend or not.
2006-11-16 00:20:38 · answer #2 · answered by enigma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this is the answer that maximum of the guys and girls look for in their partners. This is a question which has no answer not even a choice. Wait patiently. Learn the lessons from your past experiences and take care that they wont repeat. And remember one thing. You can't change the past but you will ruin the future thinking of the past. Never let the past tense to lead your life but let them teach your life. Just wait 4 the person without depression. All the best kitty. Don't hurt yourself because you can't judge them when they come to you. You can judge only after their behaviour. Forget them and get close to the happiness.
2006-11-16 00:13:28 · answer #3 · answered by nag K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably, they feel that you are going to dump them, that is why they do it before you do. To have faithful people around you, you must first yourself act faithful.
One good turn deserves another, if you are good to me I got to be good to you.
2006-11-16 00:35:03 · answer #4 · answered by Syed M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You see I'm kinda in the same boat with my girlfriend situation. Here is what I learned. WAIT FOR HIM. In my case her, but no seriously if you give it time and be patient God in time will send you that special someone. Just put your trust in God.If you want to email me my email is umplebyths06@yahoo.com.
2006-11-16 00:23:43 · answer #5 · answered by umplebyths06 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
All I have to say is keep looking there is a guy out there for you.
2006-11-16 01:35:56 · answer #6 · answered by Hot Momma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to church and find one with some morals.
2006-11-16 00:01:19 · answer #7 · answered by party_pam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋