if there was someone i was involved with...who was married..and he paid for everything....who wanted me to be with him , but i did not want to live with him and stuff...and i decided to cut him off by not talking to him anymore cause he went a bit psyco......(more than a bit)..and after a few monts i founf a man for me..who i am dating now andhave a baby with, and out of the blue this old married guy calls and asks for me to pay back everything .....and he knows i have nothing..so i said i would pay for some things..which isonly fair..but he has been calling a threataning me and such...should i tell his wife what went on.....and cotinue with getting a lawyer or..what..arghh this guy is messed up..!!!
2006-11-15 23:54:41 · 3 answers · asked by akak 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
but he has spent alot of money on me...for trips and stuff...saying i never have to pay him back...but he really got insanely psyco..and he got my number off of one of my friends and called me the other day and said that if i come back there i wont ever leave again....the only thing i could say is i will tell your wife....but he insisted i pay everything back.. to the last cent..
2006-11-16 00:29:55 · update #1
there was NEVER any agreement to paying him back..at all..he did not want it,,but since i am with someone else he is gone crazy
2006-11-16 00:31:39 · update #2
no paper trails or anything..just receipts he got after paying for things..like furinutee payments and my plane ticket, and my rent...he was ok at first and then....COO-COO
2006-11-16 00:32:48 · update #3
I'm no lawyer, but I doubt this married guy who you were seeing has a case against you. If he did, then every man in America would be suing his ex-wife, ex-girlfriend, or even women they dated who never "put out" ... they'd be suing them to pay back all the money they paid for dinners and movies and such.
Your ex-lover sounds a bit off his rocker, if he thinks that he can get restitution from you after he voluntarily agreed to foot the bill for dates and stuff. Especially if there's nothing in writing which you signed agreeing to pay him back -- which I'm sure is not the case, right?
If he gets too far out of hand, go to the police and file a complaint -- especially if his behavior has reached the "harrassment" stage. If you need to go one step further, have a restraining order put on him.
In the meantime, next time he calls you bugging you for money, just tell him, "If you want money from me, then sue me." Then hang up -- after telling him that if he doesn't leave you alone, you'll get the cops and the lawyers after HIM.
It sounds like has no grounds whatsoever for suing you, so ... I wouldn't worry about that.
2006-11-16 00:10:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look this is what goes with getting involved with a married man. Go to the police department and file a report. Look for the sake of everyone do not even tell his wife. Sounds like you both made big time mistakes. OK let it go. You were not legally married to this guy. Just do not even communicate with this guy anymore whatsoever. Have your telephone numbers changed to an unlisted one. Really he has no ground to stand on if you did not sign any kind of a contract or agreement. This is called an "affair" that really went bad, and this is the aftereffects of that. Look if you do not have any funds to give this guy, you just move on. Really there is nothing he can do about it. If you could move and this guy not find out where you are that would be good also. The further you get away and the less you communicate with him the better off you and everyone will be in the long run.
2006-11-16 08:11:33 · answer #2 · answered by Rooster 1972 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
prefer a police complaint
2006-11-16 08:03:21 · answer #3 · answered by R Purushotham Rao 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋