I am an otherwise happily married man, but I have been having ever-increasing fantasies of being with a feminine pre-op transexual. Just the thought drives me wild! Am I alone in this?
2006-11-15 23:46:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
no a lot of straight guys fantasize about it, and it doesn't mean youre gay
2006-11-16 15:59:46 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people fantasize on this - however there are 2 inherent problems with your question - the first being you are married so you really should be dealing with how to make your spouse your fantasy and secondly you are thinking of the pre-op as an object, instead of a human being with feelings. She is already dealing with issues in her life she doesn't need some guy who is only concerned with a good screwing and no care as to her emotions. And before I get a deluge of "there are a lot of them who only want sex" - true there are slut tgirls just as there are slut guys and genetic girls. But for the most part a tgirl is just like any other person but more fragile. They have had a life of confusion and as a pre-op are finally taking control of thier life. They do not need some oaf with a fantasy messing with that
2006-11-16 10:02:38 · answer #2 · answered by donald graham 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're married, best to leave it a fantasy. It's NOT worth it. I tried it when I was single, it was fun, but it's not worth ruining your marriage over.
TS's are like woman only more so because they are trying extra hard to be a woman, which makes them very feminine. Feminism and femininity are opposites in our American cultrure, and I think that's what makes MTF TS's so exciting to so many males. Most American women do not embrace their femininity.....
One thing that wasn't so fun is that in the throws of passion, after their perfume wears off, a MTF TS's sweat will smell like a guys(much different than a genetic woman's scent). Probably something you wouldn't know unless you've been there done that. The fantasy can dry up very fast when all you smell is sweaty guy.
2006-11-17 14:31:59 · answer #3 · answered by riksd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely not alone- a lot of straight men have this fantasy; that's why there is a booming, thriving section of 'shemale' porn out there for heterosexual men. Stay faithful to your wife (just some good advice), but definitely enjoy the fantasy!
2006-11-16 13:58:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fit the same general category. I think one reason may be the wish, as we get older, to have a wider sexual experience without cheating on our wives. ' Course that could just be an excuse to cover up an otherwise socially unacceptable kink.
2006-11-18 14:16:29 · answer #5 · answered by JustMike 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not alone. As a transwoman myself, believe me. There's a LOT of "tranny chasers" out there. The question is, which is more important to you? A one-night-stand or your marriage?
2006-11-16 15:52:28 · answer #6 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure you are not alone in this fantasie but not one of mine... As you say you are married use it to your advantage and make your spouse happy just don't let them know its not them you are thinking of!
2006-11-16 07:51:20 · answer #7 · answered by admiredi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people have the same feelings. Before you decide if you are a TS, maybe try some crossdressing first before you truly go further.
2006-11-16 08:11:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
No your not alone, my BF has the same fantasies.
He thinks we should find one and play with her.
I think not!
2006-11-16 08:05:05 · answer #9 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i do too but i keep it to myself since its just a fantazy
2006-11-18 00:11:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋