Me and my girlfriend havent had sex yet but last nite she told me she wanted me to wear a condom when we do. Ive never had sex b4 with or without a condom so i dont know........She has had sex b4 with her last boyfriend and i know she didnt make him wear a condom. So why is she making me wear one? She said something about not taking the pill at the moment. Is it just that she wants me to wear one for now and in a while i wont have to?? Is it just one of those women things?
2006-11-15 23:45:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
Look, If you've never had sex then sex with a condom and another human being is going to be phenomenal! Keep the condom until you're in a permanent relationship, then when all this comes together and you can do without the condom, sex will still be phenomenal! Sex to me is like pizza, even when it's bad, it's still pretty good. Be responsible first then have fun!
2006-11-16 00:34:57 · answer #1 · answered by N0_white_flag 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
There is a saying that when you have sex with someone, you are having sex with everyone they have had sex with, and everyone that all those people have had sex with, and so on. This means that with all the different STD's out there, you can never tell if she may have received a "gift" from one of her previous partners. On top of this, there is one "gift" that you could receive that you can't get rid of for 18 years.
The best thing is to just not have sex until you are ready for the consequences. Even if she is on the pill or you use a condom, they are not 100% effective. There are other ways to "satisfy" you and her.
2006-11-16 01:28:45 · answer #2 · answered by Mutt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start with a condom and never, never, have sex without one until you are married! Of course it's a little nicer without a condom, but without a condom the risk of STD's including pregnancy are very real. It can happen to you! It's not that much nicer relative to the risks of not using one.
Keep some lubricant handy (KY, Astroglide, etc, water based only); sometimes it's a little too dry with a condom, but used properly sex with a condom will be great.
2006-11-16 00:28:45 · answer #3 · answered by OU812 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, sex obviously feels better without a condom, but in today's day and age, having sex without protection (i.e. wearing a rubber) is like playing russian roulette.
Best bet is the wear a rubber every time there is intercourse. If you and your partner want to start having sex without rubbers, go get yourselves checked out for STD and stuff by the doctor...
After that you should be able to enjoy even better sex!
Cheers!
2006-11-16 00:56:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I really wish you'd choose not to have sex now, but instead wait until you're married.
Since it's not likely you'll listen to me, there's lots of different kinds of condoms. Choose a "pleasure pack" and you'll have fun with all the different sensations.
Please never ask the question, "Is it just one of those women things?" again. If you want to chuck something off as "just one of those women things" instead of trying a little harder to understand a situation, the people you're in relationships will never be satisfied, sexually or otherwise, and you'll suffer the consequences.
2006-11-16 09:53:47 · answer #5 · answered by berdudget 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably the pill is starting to affect her body in a negative way. It causes that reaction to some girls. About the sensations with the condom, to us girls it feels the same with or without it. To boys is different. You lose half sensation with one on. But there's creams you can use to enhance the stimulation when you use a condom. You could seek orientation on those centers dedicated to promote safe sex.
But the best thing you should do before going anywhere is having a hearty conversation with your GF about what both of you expect from eachother.
2006-11-16 00:00:24 · answer #6 · answered by M'lady 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
She says she's not on the pill now, so she probably just doesn't want to get pregnant. You should always wear a condom, but I have to say sex without a condom feels so much better. You will find out the difference with her.
2006-11-15 23:49:31 · answer #7 · answered by DJ 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
You seriously don't sound old enough to be having sex. You should where a condom whether she is on the pill on not, your better to be safe than sorry!
2006-11-15 23:51:32 · answer #8 · answered by ★☆✿❀ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well lets see yes it feels better without one but go to a high school or a college and look at one of their biology books at pictures of a STD and then make you choice. I don't think it will that hard of a choice after that.
2006-11-16 03:50:27 · answer #9 · answered by Best answer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like everyone else said, it's better with a condom, BUT it's better to use a condom with spermicide (the chemicals that kill the sperm when you ejaculate) in it. Keep in mind that's it only 99.9 percent successful when used properly.
2006-11-16 02:11:17 · answer #10 · answered by javon56 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋