I am very disturbed these days. I don`t have any friends whome i can talk to and feel light ! I have only two or three friends whome i can talk to but form them too some don`t pay that much attention towards me ! Overall i have many friends but i can`t call them my friends as i don`t meet them frequently and they also dont know me very well. What should i do i am feeling really very LOW ! I feel like crying like hell !
Please HELP
Disturbed 18yr old GUY !
2006-11-15 23:05:09 · 14 answers · asked by Salik K 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You're still very young to be not having many friends...BUT theres one thing i want to tell you.You could meet many people, at your age, older than you, that you can befriends to, to be your pals or peers, BUT you could have TRUE FRIENDS with some people, or might a BESTFRIEND with a person. Of course like what you said you have many friends but they do not know you very well, and you cannot share your problems with them because of that, thats true, because only two or just one person could have a close friendship with you, even though if you have a circle of friends in these friends only or two have really known you.Its normal, but if this two or three person could not also give time for you,then maybe you should start knowing other people that has a good heart and a good ear to listen in your life...You could find it in your classmates or even in your family.But you cant have it in parties or in the net, because these people are more on fun and a lot of weird things, they could only give you a short time happiness and problems if you get in a bad companions.So be smart and choose good friends that could influence you in good things and make you a better person. Me I have a lot of friends but theres only 3 persons who knows me in and out, thats my cousin, my college classmate ( we're five in the group back then, but im closer to her), and my bestfriend (who is now my boyfriend).These people always there for me when I need help and love me for what I am, I also love them and will keep them for the rest of my life. I hope you could also have that, just be friendly and dont isolate yourself to others, be balance in socialising and you could find true friends that could be there for you no matter what.Hope i somehow help you.Thats all!
2006-11-15 23:44:05 · answer #1 · answered by missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is not any 'dealing' along with her. as we communicate of your lives, many many stuff substitute - which contains acquaintances / events. do no longer take it in my view. She's no longer performing like this to hassle/annoy you - she's only thinking of what she needs to do; as you will desire to. next time plans are made, do no longer contain her. That way, she won't would desire to lie approximately partaking and you heavily isn't putting on a string waiting for her to (no longer) teach. there's a stable threat you will reconnect quicker or later. do no longer anticipate it to be like it became once you have been 10 - you're diverse those with diverse tactics. settle for (possibly embody) those variations and not be hateful of them (only because of the fact it relatively is substitute) and you may locate you like the guy she's substitute into. If she seems to be somebody you will no longer prefer to comprehend, a minimum of you have culminated different pastimes for your self and would proceed to grow.
2016-10-15 15:10:49 · answer #2 · answered by feliu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun it does not matter how many friends you have. Its the quality of your friendship. Stay strong, be true to yourself, and develop confidence.
Confidence is very attractive so you must not beat yourself up about it. If you be yourself you will make friends. Family matters too. It may help to write your feelings down in a diary.
Best wishes
2006-11-15 23:20:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you need a hug. Maybe you're relying too much on them to make you happy. You need to do what makes you happy.If you are feeling really bad I'd suggest professional help, and maybe a change of scenery. I once opened a map book, shut my eyes and moved to where I picked...It was great..I found myself again.You need to surround yourself with people who want to get to know you.
2006-11-15 23:11:50 · answer #4 · answered by firecrotchlindsay 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey,all you have to do gust be yourself.Three friends is a gift!you relay don't want more than that.I know they can be the same thing over again but there the ones that love you for how you are.
2006-11-15 23:09:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
people will give you the normal straight foward advice which is good and incouraging - like "go out there and meet people " or speak to you neighbours" or " invite some friends/ friend home or watch a movie together etc etc.......which is good an encouraging. Take their advice.
HERES SOMETHING THAT I DISCOVERED TO ADD:
2006-11-15 23:23:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Who's going to like a disturb man? :-o
2006-11-15 23:12:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You shouldn't let it get to you that much. Your still young and you'll meet more friends.. it takes time
2006-11-15 23:16:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh comeone dear,well we can be friend!!
though am 39 yr old divorced woman.
u can chat with me at terri_734@yahoo.co.au
2006-11-15 23:08:05 · answer #9 · answered by terri 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to lots of people, ask them if they would like to hang out, maybe go shoot pool or something.
2006-11-15 23:08:48 · answer #10 · answered by S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋