bedroom outfit - Stockings and Heels?

Question

Is it bad that I want my g/f to wear stockings and heels more often? I bought some white Thigh high stockings from VS and a pair of clear/base base 6 inch mules for her to wear for me 3 months ago. Since than, she has only wore them once. Of course I like any man would like to see her in them at least once per week... Do women not enjoy dressing up in the bedroom? Just trying to figure out if this is something that women frown upon, or if it is just in my case.

Answer 1

If I was her I would be wearing them every night, and as much for me as you. I love wearing them, but I think sheer black stockings are way hotter than white.

Answer 2

I have never understood why women would rather parade around naked than and not mind performing like a dog in heat, but think it is degrading to wear sexy lingerie. In past cultures only rich people could afford silky underthings, and the poor were left to their own devices.

Perhaps because I am do not have large breasts, and from adolescence I have been wearing lingerie and stockings to bolster my confidence, that I view wearing lingerie as second nature. I remember my first time making love , I did not want to remove my stockings, because I didn't want to be totally naked.

Now I realize that although I have only average breasts, I was blessed with a great body, but still prefer to wear my stockings. I detest pantyhose because they ar so confining, and I need to dress professionally for work each day, so I wear stockings and heels nearly every day. To keep them on in the bedroom is not a chore, for me, an I find it erotic in itself when the guy is so turned on.

Most women I know not only do it for their man, but do it for themselves. That is the mark of a woman whi is really in toutch with her femininity.

Answer 3

Anything my husband asked me to wear to bed I would, and I do buy myself new items a couple times a year. I don't wear them all the time, and he does ask me to wear them more often (it's a bit harder now that we have two small children) but sometimes I just can't be bothered, especially when he doesn't do anything like this for me. It really helps when he tells me how sexy I look in whatever I'm wearing, or if he sets the mood somehow. (My husband works very late some nights and sometimes he calls and we'll talk about sexy stuff, and I'll be waiting for him when he gets home.)

I would suggest you make sure you tell your gf how hot she looks when she wears these things and maybe try to do something special for her once in awhile. Like find out if sexy underwear turns her on, wear some nice cologne, or put satin sheets on the bed and light some candles, whatever she would like! Maybe even dress her in the stockings and shoes yourself, but try to do it erotically, don't just yank them on.

Good luck!

Answer 4

I dress up for my hubby at least once per week. Every lady is different. At first it's hard for us to put these things on because were not comfortable in them and feel like we look silly. You have to talk to her and tell her how beautiful she is. Not just when she is dressed in something you like but all the time! She also may feel your pushing her to do this. Take it slow. Try this -
Invite her out to a romantic dinner. Pick a restaurant you know she enjoys. Wear something you know she likes to see you in.
At the restaurant, keep the talk very positive and sexy! Talk about some of the wild things the two of you have done together.
Once your back home, have her slowly undress you while kissing each other. You want to make her hot for you! The two of you will probably make love but unless she says something.
DON'T ASK HER TO DRESS UP ON THIS EVENING!
She has to know that you did this because you wanted to!
Now, next week ask her if she would like to make a romantic meal together. I'm sure she will say yes. Tell her that this is a dress up affair and you will each wear what ever the other one wants! Here is your chance to see her in this outfit for a while!
When my hubby and I go out, he loves to see me in micro mini skirts and 5" stilettos! He wears what I want on our date nights also! We go out at least once per month. It's very sexy and enjoyable. I'm sure if you can convince her that she looks great in anything, you will have her wearing this outfit more often.
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Good luck

Answer 5

Sexy Bedroom Heels

Answer 6

Bundyal is close, I think.

You need to talk to her. Depending on how you presented this to her, she may feel you don't find her attractive in her own right - as if you need the extra "stuff" cos she isn't attractive enough.

Nothing wrong with dressing up, but if it is something you are introducing to the relationship, you need to handle it properly, otherwise you risk making her feel inadequate. I am thinking perhaps this is what may have happened.

Also, she just may not be into dressing up - some people aren't.

Talk to her.

Answer 7

Good choice my friend.Is she self concious at all.that might be one reason why she doesnt wear them more.The shoes may not be her type also.Try and find out what she prefers.Most women wont wear the clothes if she doesnt feel comfortable in them.She wants to feel sexy and desirable and if she is unsure of this she wont do it.
Try to get her advise on the outfit.

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Answer 9

Oh your a bad girl yeah i would wear them i think when you get upstairs you should sit him on the bed and tell him that he can do whatever he wants to you but enjoy girl x

Answer 10

She needs enlightenment. there is nothing sexier for either of you. I love wearing them and my bf loves me to wear them. I wear them to work everyday, so why wouldn't I wear them for him? Especially since he appriciates it so much.