she is married and has 2 kids.i am 24 and single.she chats with me romanticaly and send love cards and poems.she always leave the chat unfinished. i ask her why she do that ,she do not give any answer.she always say to me that please don`t forget me but at the same time she used to tease me in different ways and i don`t know why i am not leaving her.i don`t pay attention to such women in my practical life.but i don`t know why i am talking with her and how can i stop her to tease me.please help me i am very tensed
2006-11-15 22:01:13 · 13 answers · asked by UnderstandingLife 3 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
I would suggest you do yourself a favor and leave. Tell her that you are much too good of a man, of a person to waste your time and affection on her, when there are many more single women all over the country looking for a man just like you to tease. That and its probably not wise to dabble with a married person. I suggest against it on every level to all people. Any time you assist in a person cheating, or give them the sense of cheating, it ruins you a little bit.
At the end of it, if you dont want to be teased, dont screw around with a married woman. Just figure, if she was you wife, would you want her to talk to another man they way she is?
2006-11-16 00:23:55 · answer #1 · answered by mettophobic 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You talk to her because you need mental help, HELLO, what are you doing talking to a married woman, sounds like she is looking for an excuse to leave her husband and you have been labelled it! Online is not practical life, it is easy to walk away from with just a click, and my friend, I suggest you find that click. It is not only her husband, but 2 kids, if she was any woman at all she would leave her husband before she looks for another man. A cheat, is a cheat and will always be a cheat, so what will you really win?
2006-11-17 08:07:25 · answer #2 · answered by newfie272 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is using you for romantic escapism and entertainment purposes. Either someone has come into the room that she doesn't want to see her communications with you (her husband?) or she is just playing games with you.
If I were you, I would tell her off as being the low-life drama queen that she is. Tell her that her online "cheating" with you shows what kind of moral character she has and that you sure wouldn't want her for a wife or girlfriend.
I know this because a woman did that to my husband. Oh, she promised to leave her husband and how much she loved my guy, etc. When puch came to shove and he told me about her and asked for a divorce, she dumped him FAST!
Our marriage was never even tolerable after that and we divorced a few years later.
2006-11-16 11:21:23 · answer #3 · answered by Dovie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she is probably leaving the conversations unfinished because her husband comes through the door.
Would you want a wife who chatted romantically with some guy on the internet? Dump her, if not for your sake, or hers, then for her husband.
Stop all contact. Tell her that she is married, in case she forgot, and tell her you don't want anything more to do with her.
She's not yours! Someone else already called dibs. (the poor man)
2006-11-16 11:23:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Delete the alias you are currently using & make a new one to chat with. Let your friends know about the change & don't tell this woman. The age difference isn't such a big deal, the life experience is. She has made choices in her life, namely she has decided to have children, you are yet to make these choices for yourself. Do it with someone who is at the stage in life you are.
2006-11-16 07:44:12 · answer #5 · answered by girls_lie_too_23 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she is feeding your ego telling you everything you want to hear and in return you are making her feel good about herself as well she leaves unfinished because you said it she is married and her husband is probably not far off when she is talking to you... get control of yourself and loose her id dont have any contact with her anymore deleat her from you im ect... she doesnt love you if she did she would get a divorce and come live with you ....
2006-11-18 14:49:39 · answer #6 · answered by crazyme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
all suggested you different alternatives to get rid of her
but one thing is clear
u like chatting to her, and so you r chatting
right?????????????
then why u posted a question for help
i dont want to give a suggestion to get rid
why bcz when you have some work u urself leave these unwanted stuff and go with ur life
BEST OF LUCK
REGARDS
2006-11-24 05:22:43 · answer #7 · answered by sarayyu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 24, do you believe in fairy tales??? You shouldnt fall for that. " If in doubt , throw it out " that goes for anything..not just food. Love between you two isnt love, because you doubt her..you wrote the question. So in reality, you already know the answer..
2006-11-18 07:04:13 · answer #8 · answered by Candy F 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no you arent teased...married women cant tease you in the practical sense because if you had a shred of decency in you there is no way you could possibly be led on no matter what she said or did...
You are teasing yourself...
2006-11-23 23:51:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't fall in love with someone online. You dont know anything about this woman she says she has 2 children maybe she is a he, maybe she has ten children, maybe she has none. Who knows
2006-11-16 06:11:48 · answer #10 · answered by nik 28 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋