Scared that I am pregnant?

Question

I had sex with my boyfriend without any protection on the day i stopped my period. And den I realize I had some blood stains on my panty. So I guess I am still having my period but lighter. Den we had sex the next day without protection again. He said he shot some sperm in but not a lot. And after i bathed, i realize my period stopped. there were no blood stains on my panty. Does it mean I am pregnant? Or my period just stopped on that day? I am really scared and have been worrying about this for this few days. And my next period does not come till the beggining of next month. I am afraid to tell my parents this. My dad would hate me like how he hated my older sister for the same reason. And if I told my mum, she would defintely tell my dad about this.

Answer 1

First of all, there's only 1 way of knowing if your pregnant. You'll have to take a test. Go buy a home preg test. Hope for your sake it's negative!!
Secondly you seem like a nice person, why would you put yourself at risk by having sex without a condom. Aids is a reality!! Don't take my word for it, ask any doctor!! And don't tell me you know for a fact your partner is clean. Aids has a 3 month window period in which blood test can be negative even if you are HIV positive. And your period can't protect you against any type of sexually transmitted decease!!
Sis man. Its even more disgusting that you where willing to have sex whilst your having your period!!
Sis sis sis!!

Answer 2

If you take the responsibility of having sex you must take the responsibility of any consequences. You have the benefit of an older sister's experience & yet you are still willing to take on sex but not the responsibility. Please, use this event as a learning experience for your future. If you do not wish to abstain get yourself to a doctor & protect yourself from pregnancy - you MUST be responsible for your actions! (Your boyfriend should, too, but you already told us he isn't - no condom.) Pregnancy is a real consequence of sex. Do not put yourself thru this again, you already know what would happen with your relationship with your parents. You need to ask your boyfriend what he would do if you did get pregnant? Would he be there for you or would he leave you to fend for yourself? I don't think you are pregnant right now but it CAN happen. Take a test in a few weeks to be 100% sure you are not pregnant. In the meantime, do not use the possibility you are pregnant as an excuse to have unprotected sex before you take the test because you most likely will be pregnant if you do. Please protect yourself & your future & go see a doctor to help you prevent pregnancy if you are unwilling to abstain.

Answer 3

Talk to your mother for goodness sake. Then if your are not atleast she will know that you are sexually active and will put you on birth control and then you can avoid these situations.
I know you are scared I have been through the same thing when I was young and talked to my mother, she was disappointed that I was having sex and that I wasn't carefull but she put me on the pill. If you can't talk to your mother ask a close relative or a friend to tell your mother your concerns and she can help you.
Your parents love you know matter what and you just need to trust them, of course dad will be mad your his little girl. Trust your parents they will be glad especially your mother when she knows that you can confide in her. When you speak to her let her know that this was really difficult for you to come to her. Good luck and please be more carefull in the future.

Also go and get the morning after pill ASAP that will stop any egg from fertilising, don't wait and see, speak to mum or a friend and get it sorted out now

Answer 4

Dont listen to people that say that you cant get pregnant on your period, i Have heard that this is urban myth.

You can still bleed a little when you are pregnant, so this does not mean that you defo are not pregnant

Go and get a test from your local family planning clinic they will then discuss your options with you, whether you want to keep it or not. They dont pressure you or judge you in any way, so please go there and be 100% honest with the staff.

Good Luck, and please be careful in future, only you can decide your future and if its not what you want do something about it

Answer 5

hey chikky i have been told to talk to u by a caring friend of urs...... unfortantly i dnt have ur email. so look hey i was 16 wen i was pregnant ur parents would come around. it may take sume time. yes there is a chance u can b pregnant i am pregnant with my second child and i had sex the day i stopped my period and i got pregnant so yes it is possible. plz look after urself if u r. if u ask ur mu7m nicely noit to tell ur dad atm im sure she will understand if u need anymore help from me email me ok. [e-mail]

Answer 6

no and if you are take the morning after pill and u dont have any eggs in u to be fertilized while your on period thats the whole point of a period out with the old in when with the new (YOU CAN NOT GET PREGNANT ON YOUR PERIOD) and stop having sex on your period that disgusting on both parts

Answer 7

If you worried that you would get pregnant, you won't have unprotected sex in the first place. I think you have to observe your body for the next few weeks to see if there is any symptoms of pregnancy. In future think before you act

Answer 8

First let me tell you, that if your not ready to face wrath of Father, then you are way to young to be doing this. I don't know if you are pregnant or not, you will have to wait and see if you have your period next month or not.

Answer 9

You should have told your bf to wear his raincoat!!!!