And please don't give me any crap about revenge being a bad thing to do. I just want ideas to make me feel better!
2006-11-15 19:35:16 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
And I already screwed his best friend a long time ago.
2006-11-15 19:38:40 · update #1
Apparently I need to clarify that I had sex with his best friend a long time ago before my husband and I were even dating... so no I never cheated!
2006-11-15 19:47:24 · update #2
He just handed you a "get some d*ck free card". That doesn't mean you have to cash it in, but his being aware of it will drive him insane. You might just tell him calmly that the same rules that apply to him apply to you. It will help if you have somewhere to go for a while (living under the same roof will allow him to keep tabs on you. Even if you aren't doing anything wrong, he'll sweat it more if you are staying with a friend and aren't "home" when he calls). I know how this feels, so I'm not going to give you any "crap" about being the forgiving wife. Understand, though, that if you really follow through on these things, you may be ruining any chance you have of working things out.
2006-11-15 19:43:12 · answer #1 · answered by roknrolr63 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Okay. It isn't crap. Revenge isn't a good thing to do.
It might help you feel better for a little while, but it won't fix the things you need to fix.
Tell him if he does it again you will cut his member off and leave him, not necessarily in that order. And cut him off in other ways until he apologizes, promises to never do it again and seeks counseling.
You don't need revenge--you need your husband to grow up and get serious in your marriage. You are acting more like a brother and sister having an argument than a married couple.
He needs a good horsewhippin' for cheating, but if he feels bad about it that's a good start. If he doesn't feel bad about it make him feel bad.
And you could use a good horsewhippin' too, for cheating on him. Good God--I wish they issued brains with a marriage license...but they don't.
2006-11-15 19:42:20 · answer #2 · answered by Warren D 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think your husband has revenged you by cheating on you...since you screwed his best friend long time ago! You cheated, then he cheated...that's fair now, don't you think? If you are still not satisfied, why are you even staying in marriage with him? In my opinion, it's not marriage anymore.
I don't know how to revenge...I'm sorry but I can't think of a one thing even I actually think about this.
2006-11-15 19:42:09 · answer #3 · answered by Este 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You just think any othre work what you can do , but concentrating in something elese you will forget about your husband cheated. So, concentrate in some other thing and do not bother about your husband one day definately he will come to you and tell sorry about it. If you become fed up and always feel that your husband cheated that will be a very advantage for him you should become bold to face all problems.
2006-11-15 19:39:36 · answer #4 · answered by maguna v 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are right ....revenge is for strong people ..... And if this makes you feel better , do it !
Do you think that you can do something that will really "touch" your husband .....Maybe he is the kind of person who is not "touched" by anything ..... Maybe you will just lose some energy on yours ...
But if you think that he will notice what you will do , Do something ...
Don't think about cheating on him ... that would made you as bad as him , and you are not ...
So , maybe ignore him completely for a period of time !!
2006-11-15 19:41:55 · answer #5 · answered by alina d 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
hey buddy save ure energy and find out a best love for u, i dontt think having the mind to take revenge will be useful, i can understand ure situation but may be rather u can enjoy ure life to the ultimate with a more better person.
2006-11-15 19:38:12 · answer #6 · answered by Creative zest 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get revenge is to just move on. Don't make any attacks or anything. Just divorce him, never speak to him again, and move on.
2006-11-15 21:19:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that he hurt you so badly.I know how much it hurts,trust me.The best revenge you can get is just to leave.You know if he does it once he'll do it again.The only difference is he'll get better at not getting caught and the lies are more extravagant.Don't even give him the satisfaction of hurting you again, Leave.It will hit him hard when he comes home one day and you're just gone.
2006-11-15 19:43:07 · answer #8 · answered by brownifox2000 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Revenge?,,,,I think you just got what was coming to you. If you cheated first then you just got paid back. I think you 2 should get divorced.Marriage isn't about who can screw over who the most.
2006-11-15 19:40:42 · answer #9 · answered by Mother of 2 girls 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well it is a bad thing! Wouldn't you think that maybe moving on with your life to something better would make him regret his decission even more? I know that when any of my ex's look like they are doing better than me I get pissed off. So what do I do, I get buisy and make something of myself. I do something over the top with my life that gets me noticed, and then I get the looks from those stupid ex's of mine wishing that they had me still. Oh yeah! I have them, and hello they are not winning. I make sure they stay loosers by making myself look better.
2006-11-15 19:42:05 · answer #10 · answered by foxy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋