Thank you all who responed to My question on cheating?

Question

I think I will not tell him, I understam\nd that I did something that was wrong and I will get mine some way or another. I think that even if the other relatonship didn' t end the way it did I would have left. With everything in my life I have had to deal with my boyfriend is the one person that has been there through thick and thin. I have also been there for him while he was having problems of his own. I know in my heart that this will never occur again, . I know that some of you judge me from my mistake and that up to you I have told this to my mother and my sister and friends and they say not to tell him, I can not explain how I feel inside but it hurts. I have confessed to God what I did and have promised to never repeated it. I hope what I have choosen is right, But Thanks to everyone for taking the time to help me out,

Answer 1

Sweetheart: If I was one of those that helped you I am glad with your decision. I was hurt sometime ago. I would have rather not she told me, it didn't matter except to help her guilt, it hurt me for life. You can forgive, you cannot forget. I know it's been between us since and we've worked on it, I truly love her but I just wished she would have never told me. Forget it,put it behind you. Good luck.

Answer 2

Every one makes mistakes.Nobodys perfect.However,a mistake happens once,anymore and anything after that is done willingly and purposely.The only way out of this with a clean heart is to TELL HIM...if he stays with you,than he really does love you and is willing to work things out.You have to understand that you have to do what ever it takes to gain his trust back.However, he will always have this to throw in your face.If you don't tell him, your pretty much living a lie which is not fair to him.If you can keep something like this from him,who knows what else you can keep.Like I said,NOBODYS PERFECT and nobody is to judge except the MAN ABOVE......

Answer 3

I would recommend telling the truth and face the consequences upfront.

Answer 4

who are we to judge,really? you seem to accept the fact you did wrong and that karma will catch up with you. be ready and accept the consequences. good luck

Answer 5

If no one else says this...good on you. I think you weighed all your pros and cons and came to your decision. It's hard to take your cake and eat it too.