My sister in law let my brother get into a hot tub without proper attire w/ other people who were also lacking proper attire why would anyone let their spouse do that?
2006-11-15 19:24:27 · 21 answers · asked by primamaria04 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Doesn't sound too out of place to me. If anything, they all had something in common which is a lack of proper attire.
2006-11-15 19:31:35 · answer #1 · answered by jdhs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldn't do that, and if he wanted to there would have been an argument about it.
Maybe your sister-in-law let him do it because if the situation ever comes around again and she wanted to get into a hot-tub without the proper attire on, he couldn't object because he has done it already.
2006-11-15 19:55:22 · answer #2 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are really only two things that qualify as proper attire for a hot tub:
• Swimsuits
• Nothing
Which is more appropriate depends on who the other people are, where the hot tub is, and whether you're a person who gives a **** about such things- like you- or a person who doesn't- like your brother and his wife.
If they were wearing silk shirts & nice leather shoes or something, I would consider that improper attire for a hot tub. But assuming you mean they were naked, not everyone has issues about that or considers it a big deal.
2006-11-15 19:36:14 · answer #3 · answered by randomstupidhandle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Proper attire according to who...society's rules? Without judgment, 'live and let live', or 'life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness', 'what happens in the hot tub stays in the hot tub'. Unlike some, maybe they aren't such up-tight prudes. Maybe their minds are open and liberated. Maybe they see the human form as natural. Maybe they don't see anything wrong with it. Maybe it's just fun to be naked! What's the problem here? Maybe a little weed will help you take the edge off? Relax and enjoy!
2006-11-15 19:36:21 · answer #4 · answered by seattlego 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some people care about such acts, some people don't. It's all about your values (if you are prude or not, how you were raised, etc) and also if you really trust your partner. Personally I admit to be a tad jealous, so no, I wouldn't have let my partner do that. However I know of many girls who wouldn't care either at all. They are "open" couple with few boundaries.
2006-11-15 19:27:27 · answer #5 · answered by elka_ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing like a skinny dip in the hot tub with others!
2006-11-15 19:28:12 · answer #6 · answered by dot&carryone. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because maybe they are spontaneous people who like to have fun. I don't see anyhting wrong with what she did. They were all lacking proper attire.
2006-11-15 19:26:14 · answer #7 · answered by kitten 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
LET her spouse? What is he a trained house pet? Seems to me like your brother does what he wants, and what do you care if he is naked in a hot tub?
2006-11-15 19:29:20 · answer #8 · answered by i'm just a girl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
house rules - no clothes in the hot tub!
2006-11-15 19:28:20 · answer #9 · answered by Norman 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If there were dudes involved I am so outta that hot tub...
2006-11-15 19:26:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋