I am 14 years old and I had sex with my boyfriend on 12 Novmember 2006 and I just finished my mensuration on 11 November 2006. I am scared that i'll be pregnant cause my boyfriend said that he had shoot some sperm in. I am lost.
What should I do?
2006-11-15 18:55:05 · 18 answers · asked by rraacchheell92 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Here's an idea. STOP HAVING SEX! Oh my goodness you're way toooooo young!! At 14 I was spending the night at my GIRLFRIENDS house, making prank calls, and watching movies. Damn, where are you're parents? What would you do if you do get pregnant? Do you have a job? A house? A ton of money in the bank to support a child?
Just a little advice sweetheart, I just had my first child when I was 30 yrs old. In his first year of life my husband and I have spent about $10,000.00 on him. His formula alone is $9.57 a bottle. Can you afford to pay for that?
2006-11-16 01:35:06 · answer #1 · answered by jakesmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a good chance that you are not pregnant, but I did get pregnant with my first baby soon after I had a period too. First thing to do is.....talk to your mom. I know that you are scared, I lost my virginity at 14 too, and I regret little in my life, but that I totally regret. Your mom is there for you, don't be worried about getting into trouble, and if you do, then maybe you'll learn a lesson. Have her help you go to a Dr. and have a pregnancy test done. You'll have your answer within minutes. I think that you'll be surprised at just how supportive your parents can be. Give them a chance. And if you are pregnant, don't kill it by abortion, there are options out there, like putting your baby up for adoption. My girlfriend has 7 kids, the last 5 are adopted, and they travel all around the world with those kids. You won't be a bad mom for giving your kids a better shot in life. You'll be a good mom for doing what is best for your child. And as far as what should you do, don't have sex. You are too young. Your body isn't made for that type of activity yet. The younger you are when you have sex the greater your risk of getting cervical cancer are. My girlfriend got cervical cancer when she was just 27 because she started having sex at a young age too. Don't worry about boys right now, worry about finding out who you are and have fun with your girlfriends and do well in your studies in school. You'll have a whole lifetime to be an adult, but only a few more years to be a kid. Be a kid, once you become an adult, you are an adult for the rest of your life. Tell your boyfriend, (after your pregnancy test comes back negative) that you don't want to see him anymore because he totally disrespected you and he scared you really bad. But if you are pregnant, then you'll have some hard decisions to make regarding his involvement. If you were older I would tell you that you should get married. Really, sex is for a married couple, sex is for the enjoyment for a husband and wife, not only for pleasure, but for procreation. Hope this helps, sorry to lecture. I would like to know what happens, could you keep us informed?
2006-11-15 19:15:28 · answer #2 · answered by Faith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay.. dont freak out just yet! First thing you need to do is in about a week or two, go and buy a pregnancy test (And you can buy one even if you're 14yrs old). Another thing you should ABSOLUTELY do is go get checked to see is you have any std's (just to be on the safe side even if you're not pregnant). But... if you just got done with your period 1 day before you had sex, I wouldn't worry about it because normally you're more prone to getting pregnant if you have sex WHILE you're on your period. I know this because I tried to get pregnant with my fiance for 2 years by having sex the day after or a couple after my period, and it never worked...then when we had sex while I was on my period, about a week later I found out that I was pregnant. But you also need to realize that everyone is different, and if you really do think you're pregnant you can get the morning after pill if you're too scared to have a baby at 14yrs old, but there is a shot that you can get to prevent pregnancy for 3 months straight! It's called "Deprovera" and it goes into your hip and it WILL NOT let you become pregnant even if your boyfriend ejaculates sperm into you like a million times (It worked for me when I was 16). So go ahead and give it a try, but in order to get the shot, you're probably going to need to talk to your mom about this, and I'm sure she would be more than happy to let you get the shot. I hope that I was of some help to you, and don't worry about being pregnant yet until you have ACTUAL results telling you that you are pregnant =)
2006-11-15 19:16:34 · answer #3 · answered by Winni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you just got off of your period there is a VERY slim chance you are pregnant. Your period is you body getting rid of an egg that was not made into a baby. Then it takes 12 or so days to create another one.
Aside from all of that, GET ON BIRTH CONTROL! And use condoms. Both at the same time. Go to www.plannedparenthood.com and find one near you. They won't tell your parents and will even use code names when they call you (you get to choose the code name). It's also free. So there is no excuse. They will give you 9 months of birth control so it's one trip every 9 months to prevent pregnancy... it's the most intelligent thing you could do :-)
2006-11-15 19:02:38 · answer #4 · answered by asoobee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The typical time for your eggs to drop are 14 days after your last menstruation. Sperm can live inside of you for 72 hours. don't have sex...you are far too young. If you do, however, make sure he wears a condom. You do not need a kid at your age.
TYPICAL ovulation is 14 days after. You period is the lining of your uterus coming out because you didn't get pregnant when your egg dropped the first time. It can be that you have a different schedule. If you miss a period, get morning sickness, your breasts swell and get tender, see your doctor.
2006-11-15 19:01:56 · answer #5 · answered by pomme_de_sangstl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the chances that you are pregnant are very high. My girlfriend was on birthcontrol and she still got pregnant. I'd go to planned parenthood and find out for sure. But just in case, if you smoke or drink or have a lot of caffein, stop...they can really hurt the baby. Try eating healthier too. That way, if you are pregnant-you'll have a healthy baby.
trust me, i know i sound calm and mature, but it does suck. My gf is a wreck. Just be strong. If you like, drop me a message and I can put you two in touch. Hope this works out for you
2006-11-18 01:22:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like it or not the best answer is to sit down with your parents. The last thing you want is for them to find out from someone else or on their own. Be honest and upfront. Get tested, from a doctor is best due to your age. You dont mention it but how old is your BF? It is too early to tell with most tests so dont waste your money. You are now playing the waitting game. If you choose to not tell your parents, they will know something is wrong and that will make it harder to come clean later.
2006-11-15 19:13:09 · answer #7 · answered by Texas Tiger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well did you use a condom? if not i would have to say chances are kinda high. although for you to get pregnant, you have to be ovulating, and you dont do that until about 2 weeks after you end your period. so i think you are probably okay. but sperm can also live inside you for a while i think so you might want to go get a test done in a week or so. blood tests are better though. well good luck i hope this helped.
2006-11-15 19:01:06 · answer #8 · answered by mommy in january 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all honey you wont know for about 3 weeks since you normally ovulate in the middle of your cycle. take it from me even if he accidentally shot some sperm in it wouldnt matter. pre-come is something a guy does that he cant feel or control during sex. it contains lots of sperm. you need to wear condoms and/or get on birth control. depending on where you live there should be a planned parenthood or similar clinic nearby that gives out free condoms confidentially and birth control for very cheep if not free. when i was 15 i got on birth control and it didnt cost me anything my parents never knew. dont listen to all those people telling you not to have sex if youre responsible about it i dont see why its any of their business even if you do get on the pill or something make sure you AND your partner get tested for std's no matter if hes your first or not.
2006-11-15 19:04:48 · answer #9 · answered by Ashley F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to wait and monitor your mensuartion period for next few cycles and abnormal development to your body. If there is, better go and see adoctor and confirm what is the actual caused. In future think before you act
2006-11-16 02:16:49 · answer #10 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋