There is this married woman that I've known for the last six months, is it wise to let her know I love her?

Answer 1

I think you really should; but if you two are friends...telling her the truth will probably jeopardize that! That is a tough call! Good luck!!

Answer 2

Well if she is already married, I don't think it's wise to let her know. I mean, she did commit to a man for better or worse. So, unless she is planning a divorce in the next few weeks... I don't think you should tell her, unless you think she feels the same about you. But, I just think going after married people is wrong. You set yourself up for disapointment.

I had a friend that was with a married man. It wasn't going good with him and his wife. He and my friend would always hang out and he could talk to her about anything. After a while, my friend fell in love with him and wanted to let him know how she felt. I didn't think it was a good idea for her. She had so much to loose. He was after all a married man. She did tell him and he told her he felt the same for her. So she was pretty excited about that. They kept it a secret until he could tell his wife it was over. Well... that day never came and now, he's having a baby with his wife.

I just think anyone being interested in married people is very dangerous grounds. Your setting yourself up for heartache and disapointment.

Answer 3

Not a good idea, she is married and has made a commitment to her husband. If you feel like this could be a problem, you may want to distance yourself from her.

After all, if you married a woman you loved deeply, would you want another man telling her he loved her? It's tough for certain, but the right thing to do is the right thing to do.

Answer 4

I hope this a friendship love,! Marriage is to united each other as one. Don't mess with a person life because you feel an anxiety of new love. You will get over it, most people do. There are so many fish in the sea, don't think this is the only catch.

Answer 5

put it this way, lets say you were married, and this guy tells ur wife hey i love you. how would you feel? ofcourse you wouldnt even dream of another guy taking her away from you right. So dont break up a happy marriage, unless she's told you she's unhappy and if she's having an affair with you then yeah thats a whole different topic.

Answer 6

Are you sure that you Love her? Maybe you are just spending to much time fantasizing what you think she is. I liked common sense's answer. You should never put yourself in an immoral situation. If you're wondering,,,,YES THAT IS AN IMMORAL SITUATION. I bet if you were married, you wouldn't appreciate it very much if someone were hitting on your wife. but be careful when you do get married. PAY BACK IS A SON OF A GUN!!!!

Answer 7

I think your question needs more info. Is she unhappy in her marriage or showing signs she is interested in you??? I think that if that is the case you should not tell her and let things run their course. If you tell her it could possibly ruin any friendship/relationship that you may currently have. Besides you really don't want to be the one to ruin this lady's family do you??? She is off limits atleast that is the way it should be because she is MARRIED!!!!

Answer 8

Well that could be good or bad. Since she is married it wouldnt be wise to tell her that, unless her marriage is falling apart and she wants a divorce. Other wise you risk changing your friendship forever.

Answer 9

i have to say i am surprised that there is that many people value marriage. it's a good news...i just thought the world has changed quite a bit and marriage may have presented a different meaning here...interesting!

Answer 10

No, that would be an incredibly selfish thing to do. Think of the position you would put her in, and you would endanger the life she and you already have. If you are friends, be thankful and content with that.