I have a friend with benefits relationship with this guy, but since I was new to the whole concept of friends with benefits I kinda treated it like a one-night-stand. I don't want any strings attached, I don't want a relationship, and I am not emotionally involved. I think that's why I was ok with treating it like a one-night-stand. What I do want however is to pick up the phone if I have had a stressful day, and say can you come over for about an hour or can we meet somewhere because I need to relieve some stress. I want to know what he does for a living, and I also want to know his last name that way if anything funny ever goes down I can tie it back to him. Since I have treated this like a one night stand so far I don't know how to go back now and ask those things without coming across as though I want more when I really don't. I just don't want to f**k a stranger for the next 6 months. So I am asking you guys what is the best way to approach this, and what questions should I ask.
2006-11-15
17:25:40
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Family & Relationships
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DON'T JUDGE ME. I HAVE HIGH SELF ESTEEM, AND I LOVE MY SELF SO I DON'T WANT ANYONE THINK THAT I AM A WOMEN WHO HAS A FRIEND WITH BENEFITS BECAUSE THAT'S ALL I CAN GET. RIGHT NOW I HAVE TO MUCH GOING ON IN MY LIFE AND A FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS IS ALL I HAVE TIME FOR. THAT'S IT I AM IN MY MID 20'S AND I AM JUST ENJOYING LIFE WHICH IS NOT A REFLECTION OF MY SELF WORTH.
I SAID ALL OF THAT BECAUSE A SIMILAR QUESTION GOT THOSE KIND OF RESPONSES.
2006-11-15
17:26:08 ·
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