how do you know if your pretty?

Question

well i alway though i was pretty and cute but resently I've been thinking other wise.

I was wondering why i don't have many guy friends and boy friends. so i asked the people on this site and what people thought was that i was ugly. I know i shouldn't care what some people think on every thing.
but then i started thinking what if I'm ugly? or not as cute as i thought I was. And thats why i don't get boy friends.

All my friend and family tell me I am perty but they are my friends and family how do i know for real

and no of that stuff " it's whats on the inside that counts" I'm talking on looks. ok.

and i'm not sending pics.

Answer 1

Sure you are pretty and even though you don’t want to hear about the inside pretty the boys don’t only look at the outside they look at the inside too. How could people on this site tell you that you are not pretty, as you do not have a picture of yourself up? And even if you did it might not be a good one and some people do not photograph as well as others but that does not mean they are just as pretty as the other. As the saying goes - God made you the way you are and he don’t make no junk. There are plenty of girls that are not pretty that get lots of boyfriends and don’t you settle for someone beneath your standards. It’s really nothing to worry about, you are what you are and make the most of it.♫

Answer 2

if you look at yourself in front of the mirror and you like what you see then you know you're pretty. If you don't, that's because you don't believe you are. Self-confidence is the key to sexiness... and a genuine happy smile is a always a great head turner. (You're never fully dressed without a smile!)

Do things that make you happy and interesting. It's really about the essence of personality. If you're happy, it'll reflect on your face and people are always attracted to happy people. And honestly, beauty is more than just having a pretty face. You may be physically attractive but if you can't carry a good conversation or be fun to hang out with, people will still find you uninteresting.

So don't worry too much about your looks. Love yourself, laugh a lot and live life the way you want to... beauty (and a charm of admirers) will follow suit!

Answer 3

just remember bueaty is only skin deep and it does matter alot about what you think. I always felt as though i was ugly, but finally i snapped out of it i told myself just how pretty i was and i kept to it here is a good way to go about stuff like this do something everyday for yourself if its putting on make up to dressing sexy you are lacking self confidence and you need to regain that back. IT works trust me i have been doing it for 6 years and every day you feel 100% better than the day before. Hope this helps

Answer 4

I know that you say that you don't want that pretty is skin deep and you aren't willing to send pictures and I understand. Take a look at yourself and evaluate what you see is pretty. I use to be cute according to me when I was skinny. I don't see my self as cute anymore because I have gained to much weight. My husband putting that aside thinks I am beautifully and sexy. Don't be so hard on youself. Even though I have improvements to make I still don't think I am ugly. Trust me not to be offense to people I have seen ugly and she was skinny. Look in the mirror and think about what you see as well as what others see. Your avitar is pretty. The best thing I can tell you is take a hard look at yourself and decide what your true friends think that is what counts.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 5

Everyone has a different opinion on what they think is pretty. That's because everyone has different taste. My point is, just because you don't have a bunch of guys asking you out, doesn't mean that none of them think you're pretty. I guarantee you that there are some guys out there who are interested in you, they're probably just unsure of how to approach you. I don't believe that there is one female on this earth that doesn't have at least somebody interested in them, so I honestly think you're worried for nothing. As women, the worst thing that we can do is to stand in front of the mirror and pick ourselves apart, because you'll always find something that you don't like about yourself. That's just asking for trouble, because if you find one thing you don't like, you'll start over criticizing everything else as well. The last piece of advice I would like to give you is this- you need to have more confidence in yourself! If you show everyone that you believe in yourself and carry yourself well, then people who see you will start to respect you more, simply because they'll see that you are secure( just make sure you don't come off as conceited). Have patience, but mostly believe in yourself! If you don't , then they won't either. And I know you're gonna get a guy before it's over!

Answer 6

Maybe you're too insecure and needy to attract boyfriends. What do a bunch of strangers know that have never seen a pic of you? what does that say about you, that you need that kind of assurance? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so you could have flaws that some people consider beautiful, and others consider unattractive. Try to be more self confident. That makes you shine.

Answer 7

If you feel beautiful on the inside, it'll show on the outside too. Stop worrying about if you're pretty enough or good looking enough. Be what you want to be, and be smart. At the end of the day, guys stick around with the most confident, smart, and beautiful-on-the-inside type of girls.

Build on your self esteem. God Bless You Gurl.

Answer 8

beauty is in the eye of the beholder. people are attracted to all different types of people! my mama always tod me, pretty is as pretty does, so it is an inside thing, but i know we all want to be pretty on the outside too. im pretty but give off a "you dont really have a chance" attitude because i have a boyfriend and nobody really hits on me, but the minute im single, they all try... look at how you conduct yourself... are you real shy, or too outgoing that you intimidate guys?

Answer 9

If you make people turn their heads to look at you, you're definitely pretty. And I heard that guys are scared of "very pretty" or "very beautiful" women, so the women who don't have a boy friends are NOT necessarily not pretty. Have faith in yourself. If you're comfortable enough with yourself, you will be attractive in your own way. Good luck.

Answer 10

You asked "how do I know if I'm pretty?" You know your pretty if you feel good about the way you look. Thats the only way you'll know. I'm sure you are, and don't worry about what other people think, cuz really they don't matter, either way. and how do you know if they're tellin the truth or not!