my birthday is coming up and i accidentally invited my half enemy because she is also my cousin (we are not that close) and some of my friends hate her including me but she does'nt know it i dont like her to go to my house because she makes me mad. How can i uninvite her? HELP!
2006-11-15 16:04:05 · 18 answers · asked by Deidara of Akatsuki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
An 'uninvitation'?
or
Buy her a single of Alanis's Uninvited.
2006-11-15 16:05:31 · answer #1 · answered by CherryBam.com 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't she have a clue about how you and your friends feel about her? If she doesn't, take the high road. I have no idea why you feel this way about your cousin, but life is too short. Let her come to the party, and if things get a little too tense, cut the party short and come up with a backup plan to move the party to another location with only the friends you really want to spend time with. This way, her feelings won't be hurt, and, hopefully, some day, you can make up with her and figure out why you "hate" her. Hate is a very strong word and usually means that you are very angry with something she has done. Once your birthday party is over and have some time to evaulate how she acts at the party, you may be able to look at the situation in a whole different light. Perhaps, your feelings for her may not be all of her fault. Think about it.
2006-11-16 00:27:53 · answer #2 · answered by Murray 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't uninvite her. Kill her with kindness. When she gets there, show her that you are the more mature person by sweeping gall those old feelings and issues under the rug. Your friends will take their cue from you and act accordingly. You don't need any drama on your special day sweetie. Be cordial (not fake, it will show) and truly enjoy your birthday. The best revenge is to live well and enjoy your life. You never know, she may come to be a friend as you get older. Meanwhile, bury the hatchet. The stress and time spent thinking about such small things isn't worth it. You've got a birthday to get ready for! Best wishes and happy birthday.
2006-11-16 00:10:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
dont uninvite.. call her beforehand, meet at a neutral setting.. and talk things out (age and maturity r factors)important to let her know the reason such as "i've been feeling distant from u for some time... can we talk) go to her on your own feelings not others.. remember that all too often that the things that we see n others are the things that we see n ourself good/not so good.
also people kno/feel when they are liked or not.
and one more point sometimes people will [push] others away its called fear of intamacy issues.
i'll bet u have more incommon than either realize (its also n the blood\we r family)
2006-11-16 00:18:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is not really and easy way to do this. But you have some options.
1. Do your parents talk? Is there anyway your cousin would find out if you said that the party was cancelled?
2. You could say, this party is going to be so lame, you probably don't want to come....or you could say that someone she doesnt like is going to be there.
3. Be straight up and say some of my friends really dont want you coming, and I don't want there to be any fights or anything.
2006-11-16 00:07:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it would be a good idea to uninvite her. How did you accidentally invite her anyway?
2006-11-16 00:07:49 · answer #6 · answered by lucy02 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that the party is cancelled and your friends invited you to go out for dinner instead and change the party venue to someone else's house. Its not as if she's going to go to everyones house to find you. and i think she might get the picture that shes not invited.
2006-11-16 01:28:21 · answer #7 · answered by lipzykins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do that..that would hurt her feelings..anyway I dont know how you can uninvite her .maybe calling her and telling that the birthday party is canceled would work.
2006-11-16 00:08:12 · answer #8 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her your birthday is cancelled this year. No actually just be honest with people. Why do you care if you hurt her feelings if you dont even care to have her at your birthday. the sooner you become mad the sooner you become happy
2006-11-16 00:06:09 · answer #9 · answered by Micheal S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that only interesting people are allowed to come to your birthday, and that she could come visit you some other time.
You won't have to worry about this situation ever again.
2006-11-16 00:06:38 · answer #10 · answered by Michael 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋