Is it wrong it turns me on?
2006-11-15 15:22:18 · 24 answers · asked by Mr and Mrs 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2006-11-15 15:24:18 · answer #1 · answered by Rasta 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Blackmail her.
Make copies of the pictures and send them to her with an anonymous note saying that you'll give the pictures to her husband unless she makes ammends and tells her husband about it.
It will be a wonderful experience having her try to figure out what to do and what will happen.
Maybe then she'll come clean.
Maybe the photos give you an erroneous impression. If so, the right thing for her to do is to still come clean so that "some stranger doesn't send a strange note."
If she never comes clean after receiving your anonymous note, then tell her you found the anonymous note and leave her. She has no integrity.
2006-11-15 15:31:47 · answer #2 · answered by Michael 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometime the time change the person heart, me and my hubby been together for 8 yrs, We have 2 kids together. I found out that he might be cheating on me with some other women. I Checked his email, He broke my heart and i cry many time.
but what can I do, So i thought to myself, If i don't make him happy then I should let him go. So I told him that he could be with another women, But he have to promise to me that he will get divorce until the kids is older. Talk to your wife and find out how she feel. If u have kids then think for the kids.
2006-11-15 15:32:51 · answer #3 · answered by prettysweetrite 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something you need to answer on your own. I know I would be gone in a heartbeat. However, you mentioned that you are turned on. There is no "is that wrong" or "is that ok" answer . . . THAT is how YOU feel. Maybe talk to her . . . let her know how you feel about it. That is something that the two of you will surely have to work out though.
2006-11-15 15:28:58 · answer #4 · answered by Batracer04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you should post these pictures on the net for all of us to make an educated decision on what you should do. If it turns you on you should go for it. Especially if raising someone elses kids works for you
2006-11-15 15:24:48 · answer #5 · answered by dwjohnsonkonduz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it turns you on rather than make you mad, you're just giving your wife an excuse to continue cheating on you.
Does she know you know?
Seek professional help would be the best advice I can think of.
2006-11-15 15:26:27 · answer #6 · answered by shawnzmojo102 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is wrong that she went outside of the marriage without discussing it with you first, but if it turns you on, tell her. Maybe it will spice up your sex life. Good luck.
2006-11-15 15:26:04 · answer #7 · answered by inquisitive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it turns you on that's cool. At least the pics you found wont cause trouble in your marriage that way.
2006-11-15 15:29:25 · answer #8 · answered by I know, I know!!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she will share...
Honestly, I would seek advise from a marriage counselor and/or your minister (if you are religious). This is something serious you'll need to work through.
Good luck!
2006-11-15 15:24:36 · answer #9 · answered by Colonel Sturgeon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
return the pictures to her and try and heal things between all involved. life is too short. love is key.
2006-11-15 15:25:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋