pleaseeee............ help me...
2006-11-15 15:04:28 · 22 answers · asked by No*Nick 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Christmas
ok, i leave in somewhere where x'tians are minority, so do the people who celebrate it. he thought that it means nothing and worse...he even hate x'mas. our tradition isn't celebrate it at home with family or giving gift. just go to the church at x'mas eve and that's it. go home and sleep. our decoration is just the tree inside and no decoration outside our house. sometimes i made a chocolate cake...
2006-11-15 15:28:04 · update #1
Here's some things you can try.....Cook a nice meal for him on christmas day his favorite foods...(you can also invite some of his friends/family and your friends/family over get some liqour&good christmas tunes and enjoy a pre-christmas meal with them...do this maybe a few days before christmas since the holidays are about being with family and friends) Rent a FUNNY christmas movie ( can't go wrong with Christmas Vacation.or..Just Friends & a classic movie) snuggle up with him and watch it,Drive around your town and look at christmas lights or if your town has a festival of lights go see that get a lil frisky in the car lol &If you're in an area where you'll probably get snow sneak out in the middle of the night and go on a snowman building adventure sneak into some random persons front yard and build some erotic snowmen doing sexual acts.... then sit in bed and giggle about it later,Buy him a present that he REALLY wants if you can,Stick some mistletoe on his belt buckle & tell him thats for later...make him wait he'll love the suspense of it all...make yourself look beautiful go to victoria secrets and buy a naughty Mrs.Clause outfit,give him a lil strip tease to that one song...by Marilyn Monroe called Santa Baby...( also lol theres a lot of really dirty adult type christmas music you can play during the holidays for each other in private or when you're having a christmas get together i gurentee he'll get a kick out of it just make sure the kids if you have any don't hear it lol) Those are a few things that might lift his christmas spirit..i personally think christmas reminds us all of being young so try to have lots of fun with him....Don't forget to tell him how much you love him and are thankful that you get to be with him on this day try to keep the smiles on his face.,...make him realize how lucky the two of you are and dont forget to be thankful for what you already have because someone out there has it worse !! Hope you have a great holiday !!!
2006-11-15 15:58:14 · answer #1 · answered by @ubreY 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take him to watch some underpriviledged kids tell Santa what they want for christmas, little kids who still believe in Santa and believe if they're good, they'll get what they want for christmas. Kids who are still full of wonder and hope. To whom even tacky decorations are beautiful.
I don't know what they call it where you're located, but here we have the Angel Tree where they place angel-shaped tags on a tree with a child's christmas wishes written on them (a child who otherwise wouldn't be having a Christmas) and you take an angel from the tree and buy the gifts for the child and return them to the Tree so that child will have a Christmas. You could encourage him to get involved in that.
2006-11-15 23:29:55 · answer #2 · answered by February Rain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can take a horse to water, but you can't make him think. The only thing you can do is help him help himself find his own christmas spirit. and he can do this by writing "I am so happy and grateful now that ________." and listing what he wants exactly as it may be, as though he already has it back. Then if he believes he has it back and acts as though he has it, no matter what. He'll have it back. Then working to align himself to feel the feelings of having what he wants to actual physical actions of having the christmas spirit must be taken. These steps are the mental steps to get anything you want in the natural universe.
2006-11-15 23:13:41 · answer #3 · answered by Answerer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For starters get some candles,incense, or some kind of fragrance of home cooking around him. Normally when someone do not feel a certain holiday. A very hard tragedy happen. For instance my father died week before Thanksgiving. Knowing how he loved that holiday mainly for football games. It was a time to enjoy with him. Just put your home or vehicle in a decorative state it might get him around and warm up for the season.
2006-11-15 23:11:24 · answer #4 · answered by tygr2006@sbcglobal.net 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
my boyfriend isn't big on christmas. he told me i could decorate his room for christmas though yay. so maybe you could decorate your room or your house and have him help. you could bake cookies together or even buy one of those gingerbread house kits :) have him help your christmas tree too. also a good way to get someone in the spirit is to take them christmas shopping. all the christmas music and decorations and santa and the little kids going to see him has gotta get you in the spirit. if you live near an ice rink go ice skating. and if it snows play in the snow together. and then drink hot chocolate together. if youre excited by christmas he'll probably be excited for you and then be excited with christmas. just stay positive. christmas is about loved ones.
2006-11-18 19:03:28 · answer #5 · answered by melz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be merry. Give him some little Christmasy gifts. Sing carols to him. Find out what the problem is and see if you can make him feel happier.
For myself, I am always sad at Christmas because I have lost some family members who died around the Christmas date.
2006-11-15 23:08:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go get him an inexpensive gift, and have someone leave it on his doorstep. Don't tell him its from you.
Pro 21:14 A gift in secret pacifieth anger: and a reward in the bosom strong wrath.
I Cr 13;8a
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2006-11-15 23:06:59 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a cup of hot chocolate for him. Put on christmas music or even ask him to join you in watching a christmas movie.
2006-11-15 23:30:46 · answer #8 · answered by Marie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even try this early, you'll just be annoying him. Even when it gets closer to Christmas that more likely you push him into having the "spirit" the more likely he is going to be pulling away.
Just let him see how much fun you are having and he just might join in.
2006-11-15 23:18:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's become such a big business holiday I've lost mine too. Did you know it's actually the most popular time of year for suicides. My policy became, don't buy for me and I won't buy for you, and after the big shopping days are gone and the great sales start I go out and buy for me, O and sometime for one other if there happens to be a special one in my life at that time.
2006-11-15 23:11:15 · answer #10 · answered by splash 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋