she acts fine at school but after school tear tear tear
2006-11-15 14:13:16 · 11 answers · asked by candy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Maybe she gets teased or made fun of by kids after school everyday, and that's what causes her to cry. One day, you should ask her nicely what's wrong and she should tell you what's going on in her life. Please let me know, and good luck! Hopefully, I was some help to you. :)
2006-11-15 14:17:24 · answer #1 · answered by Aanchi11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clearly there's something wrong in her life, most likely home life. Talk to her about it. Just take the time to listen. It's very reasonable for her not to show such emotions at school, where she will get judged, and doesn't want to appear a "crybaby" or something. So she uses the second place she spends most of her time. The reason I think it's a home life is if you see her at school everyday, then you'll probably know if she is in conflict with someone or academically stressed. If none of these are true, then just talk to her. Study the way she's acting. When people are depressed, they'll give telltale signs of the problem even if not deliberately. But the only way you know is to talk to her, and study her behavior. Most of all, be there for her, if you're a good friend, she'll probably just outright tell you. People in distress or sadness are often looking for a emotional outlet, someone to confide in.
2006-11-15 22:21:06 · answer #2 · answered by Yah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that someone at school is harming her are making fun of her are maybe she is having problems at hime have you ever thought about asking her do she like going home I think it may be home, sit down and talk with her and ask her before it gets out of hand you never know what is going on maybe it could help if you talk to her. I wish her the best.
2006-11-15 22:19:55 · answer #3 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the comments made so far. But there could be some serious abuse going on in her life. I don't know how old you two are. But if it is a situation of sexual abuse she won't talk about it too easily, and certainly not through direct confrontation. Keep being a friend for her. Keep a respectful distance when you have to, but let her know you are there for her.
2006-11-15 22:27:59 · answer #4 · answered by Mr Ed 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be she is having some form of problem at home. As a friend you should really be there to help her out.
2006-11-15 22:25:46 · answer #5 · answered by Donneal B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe leftout or something is bothering her. It could be home problems talk to her and see wats up. if u can't help than talk to a counselor or adult about it. this happened to me and it was that my friends were leaving me out and forgeting i waz there
2006-11-15 23:00:41 · answer #6 · answered by Ruee.beeh lovee:) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are anything of a friend u would of already asked her whats wrong and if u have asked her she would confide in you.she sure wouldnt want kids to see her cry at school, it got be something at home or school.talk to her, jeez
2006-11-15 22:29:45 · answer #7 · answered by Peaches 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u really need to take care of her and ask her about her problems , may be she is having some family problem
2006-11-15 22:28:10 · answer #8 · answered by engr_ehsen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her. maybe she is having problems at home.
May want to tell the school counselor about it too.
2006-11-15 22:16:05 · answer #9 · answered by josh/julie m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people at school might be talkin about her, but she proably don't want to cry or it's proably something going on n her family
2006-11-15 22:25:47 · answer #10 · answered by Jarvis L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋