Have not had more than cyber sex with this man but do see him daily he is a customer where I work.
2006-11-15 14:06:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ok what ur doing is morally cheating but not technically cheating however your husband completely invaded your privacy and I think that would cause you to have your own trust issues.
2006-11-16 07:44:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would imagine that your husband must have been seriously angry when he found out you're having cyber sex with a male customer you see every day
That is a form of cheating, and if your husband loves you, he must have been enraged and very hurt
You need to apologize, promise to never have cyber sex with another man ever again and, above all, stop having cyber sex with this guy
2006-11-15 14:11:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
it still hurts your husband, and your in denial and trying to minimize it, and count it as really nothing, u should be acknowledging u did a wrong to your husband, u should be trying to regain his trust, rather than denying it. how would u feel if your husband did this to u, would u be ok with it. his ego is deflated and he is hurting, have some compassion, try to see it through his eyes. if u don't work it out your husband will not be able to get past it, he feels as if he is unloved, and he feels he can't trust u anymore, and he can't. cheating is anything that u can't do in front of your mate.
2006-11-15 14:21:41 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't get it! Why do people think cyber sex is OK when their married? I think if you have a good husband and you did this to him, shame on you!
2006-11-15 14:15:03 · answer #4 · answered by CTMEDS 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First there is a reason for your behavior. Identify your issue, face it and seek the advise of a professional. Next tell your husband the truth. Tell him why you did it. Understand it if he is upset or has trust issues and consider counseling for both of you.
2006-11-15 14:12:56 · answer #5 · answered by Willard S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard, "one thing leads to another"? Stop now before it's to late. by the way, How would you feel if you found something like that on your husbands messenger??????
2006-11-15 14:11:32 · answer #6 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're cheating on someone who loves you. Stop it and try to figure out why you're doing this. See a therapist WITH your husband. If you dont respect your vows, I advice a divorce. Try marriage counsiling.
2006-11-15 14:16:10 · answer #7 · answered by Roxy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Catholic Girl....and you do this...first go to confession, then ask God's and your husbands forgiveness.
Take the computer to a local school and donate it one you have sterilized the keyboard.
Beg your husbands forgiveness.
2006-11-15 14:11:15 · answer #8 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cyber sex is still cheating. He's your HUSBAND, don't you respect your vows!!!
2006-11-15 14:10:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You say "I've been unfaithful and I have no reason to expect you to stay in this marriage. I'll try to grow up some day."
2006-11-15 14:32:58 · answer #10 · answered by missingora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋