Ever lost a friend over nothing?

Question

I am talking about a male friend whom I lost. We had a fight, over nothing, then he quickly hooked up with some lousy woman he found in his way (we never had any kind of intimate relationship, ever, between us)... I got upset, he got upset, I got upset..... I stopped talking, he tried to, I didn't want to, we tried to make peace, didn't work out (I was too angry, he was pissed off)... he explained he never wanted to lose our friendship, then I went for holidays, then I came back, then he got a job in another city, and now we don't even keep in touch!
Nice, ha?
I emailed him - no answer. Boo. What to do? I miss his friendship soo much. I miss him, altogether. I was very happy when he was around..... and I am so sorry it all ended in such a stupid way.

I lost a friend over NOTHING. :-( What can I do? How to proceed now?

Answer 1

you cant make him answer. hopefully hell come around

Answer 2

I am so sorry. Let me start by giving you a hug. That must feel awful. I have three special guy friends that I always surf with. They have my back and one in particular has been close to me for a long time. If I lost him it would be terrible. So you have a right to your pain. But all I can say is, like any death, the end of a relationship is final, and when it happens, no matter how much it hurts, you have to get up and move on. You can not sit in grief for ever. So cry now. I understand. But get on your board again because even if this wave planted you in the sand and almost drowned you in your salt sea tears, the next wave might just be the greatest ride of your life.

Answer 3

He obviously doesn't want your friendship. It hurts when you get rejected, I know. But try to push him aside and move on with life. It'll be extremely difficult at first, but just take it a day at a time. More friends will come along the way-I promise!

Good luck.