i was going out with pathologically jealous guy.i know he loved me a lot,but put me down so many times.i lost my friends,cuz i just cudnt be in touch with them,i lost my job,cuz i cudnt work...i was sweared at,pushed and held under my neck many times.my hair was pulled so much that my skin got bruised and i couldnt sleep properly.i left him many times and many times came back.now im gone for 6 months,but i stil miss him so much.he hurt me a lot,but he was special for me,cause he is sweet,when he is not possed by jealousy.those 6 months he keeps trying to get me back.he swore he would change.2day i had b-day n got a package from him with ring and question will u marry me?i cried half of the day,cuz i cant accept we just cant be together.he says one more chance...but i think,he wont change and evrf will be the same soon.but i love him so much.....why cant i help him?i tried so hard, i really did,but never was good enough
2006-11-15 13:44:20 · 5 answers · asked by Eli 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He won't change and you will probably end up dead if you go back to him.
You need to go to get some therapy for your co-dependent issues and you need to cut all contact with the nut.
2006-11-15 14:04:13 · answer #1 · answered by divinephi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stay away from him. The problems that he have you cannot fix and he needs to get help for them. You deserve someone that treats you like a Queen all the time and you should never have to wonder is this a good day or bad day for him. 6 months is a good start for you, you need to find out why you are so attracted to someone like him. He does not love you, no matter how many times and how many ways he tells you. If you go back and he has not gotten any kind of help/treatment the abuse will get a lot worse.
2006-11-15 14:02:40 · answer #2 · answered by ladyc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he in control of ur mind because how can u love someone that treats u like that u r a lady and u should b treated like a lady. just ask ur self this question if it was ur daughter would u want her to go though something like this? no how u think ur mother feel or would feel. and if u marry this guy and have children do u think that a good way of teaching the to live life and being happy for ur kids? they follow and live what they see.
2006-11-15 14:12:48 · answer #3 · answered by pecan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like to delude yourself that this demented felon is a sweet guy you need professional help.
In the meantime know this: Someone who hurts you once will hurt you again. Someone who calls you names will call you worse sooner than you think.
Forget this guy and find yourself someone who is happy and comfortable in his own skin. And if you don't know what that means ask any doctor.
2006-11-15 13:54:38 · answer #4 · answered by Imogen Sue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi. Iam so sorry for your delema !
Imogen Sue Gave You The CORRECT ADVICE !
Thanks.
Move On and Be Happy !]
2006-11-15 14:02:17 · answer #5 · answered by nick h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋