OK HERES THE THING. IM PHYSICALLY ATTRACTED TO GIRLS. I LIKE TO MESS AROUND WITH THEM. THEYRE JUST SO HOT. ITS NOTHING COMPARED TO KISSIN A GUY. GIRLS ARE SO MUCH SOFTER. THEY KISS SO MUCH BETTER. (AS WELL AS OTHER THINGS) BUT I COULD NEVER HAVE A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP WITH THEM. AND WITH A GUY? IF I TALK TO A GUY ITS GOING TO BE SOMETHING SERIOUS. I COULD FALL IN LOVE WITH A GUY BUT IM NOT SO MUCH INTO THE SEX AS I AM WITH WOMEN. SO WHATS THE DEAL?? I DONT KNOW IF ANYONE UNDERSTANDS ME...
2006-11-15 13:32:59 · 13 answers · asked by jessica 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
By the way im 20. And ok. No more yelling. Yea i think ur right. I havent found the right person yet.
2006-11-15 13:44:02 · update #1
STOP YELLING
2006-11-15 13:35:23 · answer #1 · answered by saopaco 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well that sucks, from the info you gave I'm actually not convinced that you are bi, though I won't rule it out since there is some evidence of it. You sound like you are more comfortable around guys but attracted to girls, it may just be that you are used to guys and haven't found the right girl yet. I'd just keep experimenting around until you can find someone who can fulfill you in both areas, maybe paying some special attention to girls.
You may want to just try and find a woman you can connect to like you could a man, people come in all different personality settings so don't just automatically say that there is no girl out there you could have a serious relationship with. Or maybe you need to find a guy who can turn you on like a girl. Only you will be able to find out for sure what your true sexuality but I hope that my advice has helped. Or at the very least not confused you even more.
2006-11-15 22:46:22 · answer #2 · answered by Rageling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, not everybody fits into the same little labels. You are who you are. It's important that you find a way to be honest with the people in your life, because there will be women who want more than sex from you, and men who want more than love from you, and it will hurt them if you don't let them know where you stand.
2006-11-15 21:38:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
ur bi curious. and its normal to be more attracted to one sex, and feel more relationship compatiable with another. relax tho, maybe its just cuase u havent found the right person yet
2006-11-15 21:36:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nothing's the deal.
Believe me, when it hits you it will.
Personally I think you are just at the stage of cearching for yourself. Don't rush any decisions. Don't believe anything's wrong with you, your just confused. Speaking from experience, it will come to you when it needs to.
2006-11-15 21:53:37 · answer #5 · answered by thatgirl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear Jessica,
firstly, how old are you, how long have you felt this way? It may be that you are only experimenting but give it time. I hope you find someone to whom you can give your heart and mind
Kind regards, Rose P.
2006-11-15 21:40:17 · answer #6 · answered by rose p 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you are probably bisexual...but i would just advise you to not worry about a person's gender...just ask yourself how do i feel about this person as a human being?...am i attracted to this person???...does this person make make my heart skip a beat....forget about the whole gender issue.
I think their are levels of sexuality...like 70% hetero. and 30% homo...good luck!!!
2006-11-15 21:43:34 · answer #7 · answered by Vox Populi Vox Dei 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit worrying about it. You'll figure it out when you really fall in love.
2006-11-15 22:11:18 · answer #8 · answered by irongrama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound more lesbian than bi to me---but you're the only one who knows the real answer...just be you...everyone is different.
2006-11-15 22:37:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you're bi if you still have attracted to boys, thats the deal.
2006-11-15 23:15:01 · answer #10 · answered by classy naima 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound more lesbian than bi...it's ok...just admit women turn you on more than men..that is where your true prefrence lies...
2006-11-15 21:35:45 · answer #11 · answered by KT 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋