ok im just like any other teenage girl, except i like GIRLS. only two of my friends know and they're both bi too. i havent even told my bestfriend. n e ways...i have liked this girl(shes gay but trying to change for religious reasons) at my skool on and off since last year. my problem is that i dont kno if i should tell her and if i should then how??
2006-11-15 13:30:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Let her know. She can decide or not decide to go with you, but at least you've done something. If you sit there and let the train pass you by, you've already made a decision--know what I'm saying? So at least, going up to her, you can say you did what you could to make things happen.
2006-11-15 13:48:24 · answer #1 · answered by GreenEyedLilo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your school is like a walking mardi Gra lol.... Jokes aside i think you should tell her, what have you got to lose. Even if she is trying to "change" you should still give her the option for a relationship. She is properly struggling at the moment trying to be something shes not, so i am guessing she will appreciate you sharing your feelings with her. On how that really depends do you two talk occasionally? if so then just have a really heart felt conversation and tell her you understand that she is currently trying to change and you don't mean to put this on her and tell you have feelings for her. make sure you emphasise no pressure. If you don't speak to her do something romantic to let her know....You may miss your chance so give it a shot and hope for the best. I wish you the best of luck : )
2006-11-15 22:04:53 · answer #2 · answered by Shes a Cookie 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i wouldn't tell her. I'm still a teen too, and i'm sure you know that teens can talk. I've told people things that i regret so much. I love someone as well, but i will never tell them until they confront me first. Be careful who you tell about your secret. Kids can be mean. It would be sad to see you get hurt emotionally from some punk kid.
2006-11-15 23:14:19 · answer #3 · answered by me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
start by telling someone you really trust. I would start with your best friend. If you leave him/her out of the process, (s)he will feel left out and not as much as a best friend. Once you let your best friend know, another person's perspective on something can really help decide what action to take next
2006-11-16 10:21:33 · answer #4 · answered by dragonfly.2113 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well she won't be able to change for any reasons...she can pretend she's not gay if that's what makes her happy...you can try to tell her that you like her...she might say no...okay, you can live with that.
2006-11-15 22:39:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you should now because I've learned with past experience that asking sooner is better then waiting to find out what happens
2006-11-15 21:36:22 · answer #6 · answered by d[^.^]b 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋