I cheated on my husband- will my husband know my baby isn't his?

Question

Is there anyway he can find out the baby isn't his?

well say both my husband and the guy i cheated with are both white.....the baby will look the same right?

Answer 1

There are plenty of ways the first of these being you tell him.
Marriage is about love and trust without love there is not trust and without trust there is no love, believe me 50 yrs down the road it will be even harder to tell him and besides you're going to have this weight on you all your life, let him know.

Answer 2

Yes, he will find out eventually. It is better to tell him now. Later there may be worse consequences. The baby could be hurt as well as your husband. What happens if the child becomes ill and needs the father to be a donor? Not only will your husband find out, but then you have to deal with that on top of having to waste time trying to find the real father. And imagine that guys reaction if he didn't know! Then try to imagine explaining all of this to your child who doesn't understand where Daddy is. You have to tell your husband because you never know what tomorrow will bring. If you really care about them, you owe them that!

Answer 3

Only maybe if the baby doesn't look like you or your family or doesn't look like him or his family and if you cheated with some one he knows and the baby looked like that person and your husband can ask for a DNA test that will state the baby wasn't his. And, this one might be far fetched, but, I will throw it out there as a possibility! Your baby might be injured and have to have blood or if they are in school and study blood types and do their blood types and he finds out the child doesn't have yours or his blood type. But, what are the chances of that!? 1-100 chance.

Answer 4

he has a right to know if it isnt his. Even though both guys are white it still has a chance that it wont look anything like him. Get a dna test done when the baby is born to find out

Answer 5

Well I'm just wondering how do you know that the baby isn't his already??? Did you not sleep with your husband while you were cheating? I mean if that's the case then he should already know it's not his.

But no he won't know unless you tell him and unless the baby doesn't look like him.

Answer 6

OMG - that is really terrible... i think the most important part of the situation is your unborn child! you are cheating not only on your husband but your unborn baby by not giving him/her the truth about who the father is - what if there is a medical emergency which requires genetic information - THEN is that a good time to tell the truth...??? think about it... how would you feel if you were that child.. ! CHEATED i would think...

Answer 7

Sooner or later your husband is going to know the truth whether it comes directly from you or from another source. You must feel terrible living with this kind of guilt and torment, but there's always a price to pay for our poor judgment and misguided behaviors.

Answer 8

yes if you cheated with a racially different guy.Other wise he can get a dna test and find out for sure.This can get iffy should the baby need an organ transplant later in life and it has to get checked for medical reasons

Answer 9

I just can't help but smile, here is a lady who admits her deeds (good thing and positive) and all are supportive, yet if it was a man who did the deed, these people would be calling him names.....I just had to comment on that observation about the differences in the gender response......Yes he can...DNA is proof positive with no denial.

Answer 10

If he suspects he can always have a DNA test. you may as well tell him so that you don't have to worry about it your whole pregnancy. He will find out one day - wouldn't you rather it be now then later???