Alright, so I'm 20 years old, and well...I've never had a boyfriend in my life. EVER. I'm Roman Catholic, but I'm also a Liberal (interesting combo huh?), and well quite frankly, I'm getting to the point where temptation and lust are pretty difficult for me to handle. I have been trying to masturbate like a regular adult, but, I really haven't gotten anything out of it. This may sound crazy, but I looked up something on the internet about 'interesting things to use' and one of the ones suggested was a toothbrush. In conclusion, I did it, and it was really strange, plus I think I may have used it incorrectly. I'm also quite worried to think if I'm crossing the 'boundaries' in God's eyes. If anyone has any sort of information or tips they could possibly lend me, it would greatly appreciated. Thank you!!
2006-11-15 12:47:57 · 13 answers · asked by irish_lily7321 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
First of all , why should you 'handle '...temptation and lust? don't you know that is normal. There is no God that is going to punish you for anything you do with your body or with someone else in full consent. You obviously do not know anything about the early history of the Catholic church and the Nicene councils and the councils of Trent and others. It is there that they completely altered the teaching of Jesus. Did you know that he was not even considered any more than a prophet or a man till One of the early Councils had him elected to Deity by unanimous vote of all the bishops present?Did you know that there were already 30,000 errors in evidence in the Textus Receptus of the New Testament even centuries ago?,,,
Jesus was a great moral teacher, but surely his words have been modified often by the very 'Scribes' that he always warned about . I am sure that he masturbated himself and thought nothing of it more than a natural way to obtain relief.
Don't be so scared of going to hell girl and start enjoying your body. Get yourself a nice young guy and LET GO..THE TRUTH WILL SET YOU FREE...
2006-11-15 13:03:42 · answer #1 · answered by odysseus96 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree, don't look up "interesting things to use" to stick in your vagina.
You need to discover your clitoris girl, and find out what feels good and works for you. If a vibrator is too big of a step right now, use your fingers.
And try to let go of the guilt, masturbation is a normal, natural, healthy thing.
2006-11-15 14:47:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget trying to stick things up there. That's usually not what's going to get you to a "happy place." lol. Use a vibrator, on the outside area of the vag. You don't need to get a penis-shaped one or anything. Just one that you get at any store for use as a back massager will do.
2006-11-15 12:52:50 · answer #3 · answered by Jess H 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what kinda toothbrush you used, but you're suppose to use an electric toothbrush, and turn it around so the head(not the bristles) is against your clit.
But many many many women get along just fine using only their fingers...use your middle and index finger and just rub your clit in circular motions.
2006-11-15 13:14:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure God is deeply concerned about this too given the lack of news and important events in the known universe recently but you may be able to fool him by sitting on the washing machine during the spin cycle, or so I hear..
2006-11-15 12:53:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
yea there are certain spots on a female that feel good if they are lightly touched....
but what i found best is.... try to get a boyfriend, if there is a single guy on your block or at your work start making friends with him and hopefully it will grow into a relationship
and then after a few months in a relationship when you feel this is right mention it to him
2006-11-15 12:57:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
God has a lot more things to think about than whether or not you are playing with yourself. That's why god gave you that little button down there, so you could pleasure yourself. Nothing wrong with that at all.
2006-11-15 12:59:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its natural and a wonderful stress reliever. Take your time and just learn the areas of your body!!! Enjoy!!!!
2006-11-15 13:12:42 · answer #8 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, never put any foriegn objects in your vagina. Second, try buying a vibrator or a bullet....you may even try looking at porn while you're doing it and as far as God goes. I would way way my options...have sex before marriage or pleasure myself! you chose....Good Luck
2006-11-15 12:56:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't stick foreign objects in your vagina!! In all likelihood, that will get you absolutely nowhere anyway. Use a vibrator on your clitoris and have a good time :)
2006-11-15 13:15:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋