My bestfriend moved the other day. I miss him so much. He moved about a half hour away and my parents wont let me go to his house because his parents are "wacko". In some way I guess that's true but I miss him more than anything I ever have. The day we met we hooked just like that. He could always put me in a good mood at any givin time no matter what was going on. I've cried so much these last few days and I like never cried. *cuz I had him to talk to* I used to spend every second I could with him. Now I don't know what to do because my parents wont let me go to his house. He's going to come out to where I live but Idk if my parents will let me. They're really really strict. and when he does come out here there will be a lot of other people not just me and him.
PLEASE HELP ME!
2006-11-15 12:47:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you need to really explain how devastated you are about him moving to your parents. your parents should be more understanding, but they might just have your best interest in mind? why would they oppose from having your friend over to YOUR house? is this friend a bad influence or something? well, try & that is all you can do. it is hard to get used to people moving away, but time will help. i suggest talking on the phone will help as well.
2006-11-15 12:50:12 · answer #1 · answered by christy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I do not think that your parents are intentionally trying to cause you pain. Parents have a tough job taking care of and looking out for their children, so please try and be understanding of that. Now to the matter at hand. Your pain and sense of loss is genuine, and for that I would like you know that I am sorry for what you are going through. I know that the last thing that you would like to hear right now is how this can be beneficial for, but this situation has the potential for some great life lessons to be learned. I think that if you shared with your parents what you are going through that you will open a whole new line of communication with them. Parents do not always know how to understand their children, and if you can take this step...then I think that you might be quite surprised at how they will listen to you. Not just in this instance, but in the future as well. I see a window of oppurtunity for you and your parents that should be taken advantage of. Opening this new line of communication will help your parents see you better and you them. I think that with an open, honest and rational dialog that you might be surprised with how you and they will look at how things are for you now. With this new perspective, your parents might have some good ideas on how to help you. Also, you yourself might come up with some amazingly fresh ideas. I truly believe that there is no limit to what a family can do, when everyone works together. Give this a shot(talking with your parents..I mean truly talking), if that does not work, then shoot me an email. Tell me what transpired, and I will see how I might be able to help in a different way. Be honest, be truthful, be trusting, and I think that your parents will really surprise you. In the mean time, call your friend and keep in touch. I am sure that your friend misses you too.
2006-11-15 13:16:40 · answer #2 · answered by dr.cocktail 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm really sorry to hear that your friend has moved away. if you really want to see him you could always rebel against your parents but if your not that time of person then it might not be the best idea.i would just ask him if you and him could just spend some 1 on 1 time just you and him like old times , just be honest and tell him how you feel. Make it a point to call him as much as possible to stay in touch.
2006-11-15 13:08:06 · answer #3 · answered by Just call me T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at least he is in the same state. there is always a phone. I know it hurts, but at some point the pain will disappear. I am going through the same scenerio here as well.
2006-11-15 12:59:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how did you go to his house before?
you can still talk to him on the phone. i know its not the same but maybe if you talk once every day and meet once in a while, it could be almost the same. then, when you get older, you don't have to listen to them
2006-11-15 12:59:27 · answer #5 · answered by omygosh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can go find a friend there in your community. It's always a great experience meeting new friends... interact with them!
2006-11-15 12:54:47 · answer #6 · answered by d.t. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you can visit at your parents and maybe go to a movie or something.talk to your parents and see if they would allow something so you can see him.
2006-11-15 13:03:23 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs..Yahoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make new friends
2006-11-15 12:58:51 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should have your num#
2006-11-17 08:05:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋