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I'm 13, and I have been having dreams of these two hot girls making out and having sex. I'm sooooo confused about what I am! I'm a little afraid of what people will think of me I do tell them. Especially from my dad, he always makes gay comments and stuff. Has this happened to anyone?

2006-11-15 12:41:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Cultures & Groups Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

My dad never will leave me alone. He calls me ugly and fat all the time, even though I'm none of the two. Okay, so maybe I should of put lesbian, sorry.

2006-11-15 12:52:51 · update #1

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Well, you could be a lesbian. For some it takes time to figure out their orientation. It sounds like you aren't willing to admit your feelings to yourself and accept your sexuality. Oh, and what your father is doing is abuse. Get as far away from him as you can. You don't need that negativity in your life. It sounds like no matter what you tell him he's going to degrade you though. Just get away from him for your own sake.

2006-11-15 17:27:39 · answer #1 · answered by carora13 6 · 0 0

Don't worry about it, your dreams are not reality, I've had some pretty juicy dreams about me and a female and other females together to, but Im 100 percent straight. You can't control your dreams like I once jumped off of a 6 story building in my dream and started flying, does it mean that I would do it outside my dream. Heck No!! So don't trip. It was just a dream.

Oh ya and also when I was in school everyone thought I was a lesbian because I would hang with myself mostly and I was to shy to get a boyfriend. That never came true either, don't take what other people say to heart, they don't know the real you and probably never will.

2006-11-15 20:45:16 · answer #2 · answered by caiforniapoppy 3 · 0 0

Im not gay I can assure you that but I once had a dream kinda like you except with guys. It doesn't really matter what you are, as long as your comfortable with yourself. Who cares what other people think of you..honestly? Im a freshman and at the beginning of the year when I cared about what girls thought of me and how I looked everyday I learned I wasn't secure about myself and very self consious. When I stopped caring what other people thought I felt comfortable in my own skin and nothing really mattered.

About your dad and that he will probably love you no matter what. My dads brother is gay but he still loves him and makes gay jokes.

Anyway I hope your situation works out for you.

2006-11-15 20:45:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Sorry to hear about your homophobic dad. Kids your age have parents young enough to know better.

Nothing wrong with your thoughts. Don't even think of yourself as gay or straight. Just be yourself. In a few years you'll understand who you're attracted to - men or women. Or, you might just be sexually attracted to both. No problem. No need to label yourself. Especially now.

BTW, it's pretty normal for just about anyone to once in awhile have dreams of same sex sex. Just let dreams be dreams.

2006-11-15 20:45:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You need to take a very large pipe wrench and screw your head on straight. Tell your dad that you are a lesbian and whatever his reaction is will reflect what 99% of other people's will be. Good luck. Pops

2006-11-15 20:46:53 · answer #5 · answered by Pops 6 · 0 0

i think that every girl has their own "lesbian" side... i knew some straight girls who sometimes turned on towards other girls. so i think its normal.

by the way, is LESBIANS are also considered as GAYS? my first impression in your question when i see it is your a 13 year old boy. but when i see your "avatar", its a female, so if you are really male, and you show a female avatar, then your a 101% gay.

2006-11-15 20:50:23 · answer #6 · answered by Kian 2 · 0 0

Everyone at some point has a homosexual thought. Your mind naturally wonders sometimes. If you find yourself desiring to act on these thoughts then you may be a lesbian.

2006-11-15 20:53:23 · answer #7 · answered by will w 1 · 0 0

Well... if you have those dreams and find them exciting or consider them something you'd want to do... you're probably a lesbian.

Then again, your mind could just be dreaming of random crap.

2006-11-15 20:43:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

right now you are in the process of finding out what you are, don't worry too much about it, everyone goes through it!

go with what feels right.

2006-11-15 20:46:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

when i see a nice looking nude guy and i get a erection that is how i knew i was gay.

2006-11-15 20:53:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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